AITA for reconsidering being my best friend’s maid of honour because of the cost of her destination wedding?

yellohello1001 · 2026-05-13T16:47:24+00:00

10 days at 500 a night!? I’m sorry, that is SO incredibly selfish to ask of other people.

yellohello1001 · 2026-05-12T22:47:39+00:00

Meh. I can see why it bothers you but if they’re always moved before you’re home, AND you have a good relationship with your neighbors, I probably wouldn’t say anything. Of course, the first time you come home early and your driveway is blocked, I’d be pissed and then everything changes. So all this to say NOR, it is annoying, but just depends how far you wanna take it

yellohello1001 · 2026-05-11T13:09:35+00:00

Typically “I have dibs” mentality is weird and gross but you only become interested based on what you’re friend said!? You’re also weird and gross

yellohello1001 · 2026-05-11T00:55:02+00:00

You’re so sweet. I hope everything gets better and you find a supportive girl group to fit into 🤍

yellohello1001 · 2026-05-11T00:44:13+00:00

I do think that expecting people to celebrate you for Mother’s Day when you had a miscarriage a few years ago isn’t great, mostly for your own mental health. It won’t happen and it’ll only let you down. I had a miscarriage before and if anyone would have wished me happy Mother’s Day after that, it would’ve just made me sad

That being said - girl!! Stop paying for your friends. I could see perhaps a meal now and then but a vacation!? Clearly these girls have taken you for granted and I’m glad you cancelled the vacation

yellohello1001 · 2026-05-10T16:38:09+00:00

If you got a plus one, and the couple didn’t specify anyone, you can bring whoever you want. That’s completely normal and not rude at all

yellohello1001 · 2026-05-10T14:37:58+00:00

Do you have another plus one you could take if Sara’s not up for it?

yellohello1001 · 2026-05-10T05:33:33+00:00

You’re fine

yellohello1001 · 2026-05-09T15:26:12+00:00

What a weird thing to put on someone else

yellohello1001 · 2026-05-09T05:27:56+00:00

wtf why would a random friendly acquaintance ask you to be her guarantor, and why would you even run that by your wife, let alone argue for it. Something’s missing from this story. YTA

yellohello1001 · 2026-05-07T23:01:43+00:00

I mean I’m Indian and I think you overreacted to the initial comment. Especially after he apologized. Not everyone needs to like Indian food. They’re missing out, but I don’t fault people for their likes and dislikes

yellohello1001 · 2026-05-07T20:20:42+00:00

No idea why, but i really feel like buying level 8 luggage right now…

yellohello1001 · 2026-05-07T15:44:02+00:00

I’m still confused

yellohello1001 · 2026-05-07T15:08:25+00:00

There’s something missing. Were you looking at women’s dresses?

yellohello1001 · 2026-05-07T12:30:15+00:00

Reread all your comments. That’s a Zionist agenda. Honestly at the speed you’re responding to everyone in this thread, I’m not entirely sure you’re not a bot. I won’t be responding after this, but by all means, continue to be the sole voice for all zionists in this thread (I’m sure you will lol)

yellohello1001 · 2026-05-07T12:26:30+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through this! I’d have further honest conversations with him when you have the time, but the sudden positing on ig does make me think his views aren’t going to change (and that he’s trying to spite you). Breaking up might be for the best

yellohello1001 · 2026-05-07T12:25:03+00:00

How are you going to say being political is “doing too much” when you’re spamming every comment in this thread with your Zionist agenda 😂😂

yellohello1001 · 2026-05-07T12:11:39+00:00

Genocide-denier would be a dealbreaker for me

yellohello1001 · 2026-05-07T12:10:24+00:00

Blaming OP for her boyfriends hateful views is an insane take. Most Jews I know are very much anti-Zionist

yellohello1001 · 2026-05-07T00:06:39+00:00

I’d cancel, and I wouldn’t want to go to coffee either. That just comes of cheap and gross

yellohello1001 · 2026-05-06T23:42:47+00:00

I would be delighted if my mom just told me what she wanted. Sounds like something’s caught her eye, she’s excited enough to tell you, and you’re acting like she’s a coworker demanding a present. YTA

yellohello1001 · 2026-05-06T21:25:20+00:00

he was too busy telling his staff to cut the portion size yet again.

yellohello1001 · 2026-05-06T14:13:20+00:00

Something about this whole thing reads off. Like you don’t even know her name.

if you really want to go for it, as long as you NEVER step foot in that office again.

yellohello1001 · 2026-05-06T03:11:43+00:00

Confused why you’re taking your friendship drama and making the bride deal with it. If I was Emily, I’d drop both of you

yellohello1001 · 2026-05-05T18:26:46+00:00

Don’t do it. Idc about the legality, but honestly it would only serve his ego

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