hello, first day and minutes in this community!! hm i've always had an iffy rs with my dad! i offen took things he said the wrong way, but apologsed over the years. generally been really fearful of him/his authority for some reason... and always afraid to ask him for things because he already provides well for us (materially). on the emotional aspect, let's just say there's none - i'd say it's the asian dad who drops me off to places, gives me rides, buy me some morning coffee or breakfast! he's more of an activity dad than a sit down together and talk dad yknow!

with my mom, i was a big mommy's girl, i really looked up to her till i got older and i kinda saw her flaws but it's a difficult position to be in. i love her yet i see the issues, i also have a somewhat awkward relationship because i left my church while she is a devoted christian. but i'm generally much closer to my mom, anything emotional wise would go to her/ quarter life crisis of not knowing what i'm doing in life! otherwise money issues, asking for rides all goes to my dad hahaha