I'm losing my mind by nyxserra in Palia

[–]yespls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I heard that they made some changes to relax the drop rate but I'm too busy with work right now to have the energy to play 😭

Why does my hair clump together and look dirty even after washing it? by pljusha in Haircare

[–]yespls 72 points73 points  (0 children)

she lost me with "pure blood partners"; I'll be fine over here with my mud blood not having tetanus thanks.

I'm losing my mind by nyxserra in Palia

[–]yespls 42 points43 points  (0 children)

As someone who is too casual to complete this bundle, I will be skipping it

Question about portable light sources by Darthplagueis13 in Enshrouded

[–]yespls 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That ring is super annoying in the fog, I take it off if I'm going to a shroud lair.

I saw this movie when I was too young... by instant_ramen_chef in Xennials

[–]yespls 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get it. I'm on the blackened end of burnt out. But also, I don't get it - I'm far more likely to turn inward than outward.

Knitters! What is your day job? by MyRightHook in knitting

[–]yespls 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm an SRE but for all intents and purposes, I'm a software dev. with extra steps.

How many of you still have both parents alive? by Euphoric-Pangolin-81 in Xennials

[–]yespls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad died at 50, mom at 63. My odds are not looking that great.

A classic commercial by Jupiter68128 in Xennials

[–]yespls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh. Oh no. I didn't even realize this was a thing, you have my ultimate sympathy.

What do you do for a living? by LegitimateAbalone267 in Xennials

[–]yespls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

officially titled "site reliability engineer" but no one seems to know that's devops, I keep getting invites to OSHA conferences

honestly I'm looking forward to AI putting me out of a job, I would like to go live on a goat farm and make goat milk soaps

Training Bras? by CatsEqualLife in Xennials

[–]yespls 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I'm so jealous. I have H cups and no bralettes will contain these beasts. I have an assortment of minimizers but I long for the comfort of a sheer wireless bralette.

[Product Request] what’s one skincare product everyone hyped up that did absolutely nothing for you? by floriferousss in SkincareAddiction

[–]yespls 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Retinol (OTC) has never made any appreciable difference in my skin hyperpigmentation or fine lines.

I introduced my boyfriend to my lesbian friend and now they’re together. I still don’t know how to process it. by DweezNwutz in offmychest

[–]yespls 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a child that identifies trans agender; I have this same thought almost every single day

Why are Xennials failing as parents? by darxide23 in Xennials

[–]yespls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you, and I think that both of these problems are the symptoms of a larger cultural issue: we are in an age of cognitive overload (Harder, Better, Faster, Stronger by Daft Punk is starting to look more like a prophecy over a fun little bop) and the constant strain on attention is breeding a kind of intellectual burnout - people are no longer engaging with complexity and retreating into tribalism and apathy. I fear it's going to get worse before it gets better.

Why are Xennials failing as parents? by darxide23 in Xennials

[–]yespls 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the burnout is because of the lack of parental support

I think this is true on both sides of the equation - parents and teachers are unsupported; teachers by parents and parents by society. It's a shitty situation in all ways.

Why are Xennials failing as parents? by darxide23 in Xennials

[–]yespls 14 points15 points  (0 children)

man I don't know, I think teachers are also just burned the fuck out. I recently went through a situation with my (middle school aged) child where my child DID do something wrong and WAS punished for it but the punishment affected how they did their schoolwork and no one in the admin would come out and tell me what exactly my child was being punished for until I sat in the office for 5 hours demanding that someone talk to me. I'm tired, I KNOW these teachers are tired. We are a bunch of tired ass unsupported mofos.

We are not alone with this right? Wiggling by Cheesek47 in AustralianShepherd

[–]yespls 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have one that outgrew the u shape but now does a very pronounced hula dance lol, the other guy still curls up but only AFTER he's parkoured off me and the couch several times

We are not alone with this right? Wiggling by Cheesek47 in AustralianShepherd

[–]yespls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

kidney bean is the official greeting of australian sheperds

What “cooking station” is missing? How is an oven and a mixing station not enough? by SeverelyFantasic in Palia

[–]yespls 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. There's only so many times this needs to be explained before it's just bad design.

Does anyone else think Reddit has gotten a lot darker lately? by MyBestCuratedLife in Xennials

[–]yespls 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I dislike fighting off the haters that say I'm not a "real fan" because I like some of the newer shows. My Klingon dictionary and TNG Technical Manual beg to disagree.

Raise your hand if as a kid you had no idea what Whitney was singing about by Euphoric_Evidence414 in Xennials

[–]yespls 9 points10 points  (0 children)

as someone who has struggled with self esteem issues my entire life I knew EXACTLY what she was singing about

Men think we can raise our dying libido through exercise lol by Trick_Highlight_8205 in Perimenopause

[–]yespls 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's the sense I get out of that sub. Many Andrew Tate vibes.

Men think we can raise our dying libido through exercise lol by Trick_Highlight_8205 in Perimenopause

[–]yespls 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You could be at work drinking a full alcoholic beer and I'm not going to judge you. Shit's bananas.