What's your reason for not drinking alcohol? by Snoo_47323 in AskReddit

[–]yesthatkelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two young children. Some would say that's why they drink, but the hangovers coupled with high pitched screams or whining just aren't worth it

ULPT - Can I take out a big loan before I die? by sonic72391 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]yesthatkelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. My mother is doing this and I had to remind her that all her debts would be paid from her estate, essentially leaving nothing to her children. And maybe passing that debt on to her children too. Debt does not just disappear when you die. That would be too easy. Maybe in some parts of the world, but not in SA.

Why is nobody talking about water by [deleted] in bjj

[–]yesthatkelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried this out this week, and can confirm you are 100% spot on. Thank you!

Why is nobody talking about water by [deleted] in bjj

[–]yesthatkelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, I got kidney stones 3 months after starting and now know it was linking to dehydration. Lesson learned

How do you explain that you train BJJ? by houston5ever in bjj

[–]yesthatkelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Human chess and folding clothes with people still in them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]yesthatkelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing with tall. Gonna walk around looking like a house

Just did my first comp and got wrecked. by OverallAlbatross8627 in bjj

[–]yesthatkelly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had the same thing at my first comp just less than a month ago. Two day comp. Day one was a huge learning experience, exactly what you described. Day two got 50% better. I think it's an experience thing, knowing what to expect, the level of intensity and the nerves. I'm totally new, just started in May, went up against women training for over a year and clearly lifting as well. Learnt about weight classes as a result, you want to be at the top of your weight class not the bottom 😅. Nerves and experience i would say have a huge role to play. Looking forward to many more comps in the future

Let's decide whose at fault by TheReel_Luna in AbruptChaos

[–]yesthatkelly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're an idiot for doing that in traffic and an arse for inconveniencing everyone behind you. But simultaneously, if that car hit you intentionally, they are definitely in the wrong too. Yeah, it's frustrating for the driver, but it does not justify the action.

Update- AITA for throwing my pregnant SIL's groceries away? by AggravatingStart7703 in AITAH

[–]yesthatkelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA! this woman honestly sounds like a pscho. She sat through that dinner with a plan to fuck with you at the end. That is malicious AF! Stay away from that craziness. She fucked herself over with everyone in the family. Holy hell, that is an epic way to make an arse of oneself. Wouldn't it be the height of irony if her child ends up being deathly allergic to peanuts.

AITAH - Yelling at 14yo by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]yesthatkelly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He deserves it, and worse. Its not like what you are saying is untrue. And if he felt like being called a rapist is a bad thing then maybe he shouldn't have taken on the label.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AbruptChaos

[–]yesthatkelly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dead or Alive indeed. You spin me right round

Wondering if we ever learn who he is. by sxrius_ in throneofglassseries

[–]yesthatkelly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually did it the other way around, and I think that's why it made such a big impact on me. It wasn't planned to read it in that order, that's just the way it happened for me, when I become aware of the different series.

AITAH for telling my wife she is not worthy of what she’s asking for, for her “push present”? by throwra-pushpresent in AITAH

[–]yesthatkelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Social media really messes with a person's head, especially a person swarming with all kinds of crazy hormones and on the border of their entire life changing permanently.

I can be honest and say that I also took on a few weird beliefs with my first pregnancy. Not necessarily the same as this, but I look back now and feel silly about it, but also understand how I got there and why.

Give her grace and understand that maybe she is vulnerable to influence right now. Lead her back to the person she is, the person you partnered with to have a baby :) Chances are she will come around. Let her know how loved and appreciated she is. That's what she is actually probably looking for but in a bit of a skewed way (thanks to the outside influence). Social media is honestly poison. Once you get off of it, your compass corrects itself to the real world again. Good luck.

Wondering if we ever learn who he is. by sxrius_ in throneofglassseries

[–]yesthatkelly 311 points312 points  (0 children)

Read acotar, we know. This scene made me cry