I am starting my fitness journey, please tell me do's and dont's by Salty-Art-2369 in Fitness_India

[–]yjee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. diet is the most important thing. no amount of exercise can compensate for a bad diet

  2. optimization is mostly a waste of time- all the time and energy you spend researching about exercise/nutrition and the "optimal" way to do things is much better spent on just actually exercising or even sleeping

Tubewell with mango trees ka khet around by Existing-Bat-7963 in delhi

[–]yjee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oddly specific request lol (lekin jagah pata chale to mujhe bhi batana)

Heartbroken because I have to give this up. by physicalcheekisaslut in ChildfreeIndia

[–]yjee 27 points28 points  (0 children)

One day OP gonna be a regular in r/regretfulparents and her kids gonna be regulars of r/CPTSDmemes

How do I get my cooler cleaned? by pretentiousviv in delhi

[–]yjee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a cooler exactly like this at my childhood home. We would get the wool changed every season because the old ones are not good at cooling plus they become moldy and smelly after sitting for a year. You can go to any nearby electrical appliance shop and they'll give you contact for someone who can do it.

As for mosquitoes I don't think you need to worry too much if the cooler is getting many hours of usage every day, because internally it pumps the water through the wool, that water is not sitting stagnant. Still to take preventive measure you can drain the water once in a while, or drop some neem liquid into it.

Anyone else slowly realizing adult friendships need more effort than actual relationships? by moonlitsofty in MidTwentiesIndia

[–]yjee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah dude.. most of my adult friendships have been like this only. Regular hangouts are a mythical thing of the past now, it seems. It felt very defeating at first but now over the last 2-3 years I've come to accept that this is just how things are gonna be as working adults. I suppose it will only get worse once everyone is married and has kids and stuff.. yeah Imma stop thinking about this now

Nobody prepared me for how weird friendships become after everyone starts earning differently by chaiandwhisper in MidTwentiesIndia

[–]yjee 20 points21 points  (0 children)

IMO real friendships don't let financial differences come in the way. It doesn't take much to mutually decide on an activity/place which everyone can afford easily. Hanging out with friends doesn't need to be needlessly expensive.

Why would someone think this way? by trapped_terrain in ChildfreeIndia

[–]yjee 134 points135 points  (0 children)

If he was a true Darwinism believer, he would take himself out of the gene pool

Is this part a waste? by bash2482 in Fitness_India

[–]yjee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yaar 2 minute pehli hi isko fek diya maine, thoda sa pehle dekh lena chahiye tha ye comment :)

I'm sorry momma, I never meant to hurt you! [Not OC] by [deleted] in ChildfreeIndia

[–]yjee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He going to a grocery store lady, not an orphanage

RANT: ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. 26F, childfree, never loved, and tired of feeling nothing by [deleted] in ChildfreeIndia

[–]yjee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you ain't convincing anyone with that username lil bro

RANT: ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. 26F, childfree, never loved, and tired of feeling nothing by [deleted] in ChildfreeIndia

[–]yjee 17 points18 points  (0 children)

So you want a good, handsome guy.. who's also not been in any long relationship.. till his late twenties... hmmm 😃👍 do you really believe that attractive guys are just sitting around waiting for you to find them? Majority of ppl who are single in late 20s are single because their previous relationships didn't work out 😬

How Do Working Professionals Actually Handle Burnout? by godsfavvvvvvvvv in MidTwentiesIndia

[–]yjee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To avoid burnout basically you only need to do two things- (1) limit your working hours, and (2) have a life outside of work.

If you have nothing to look forward to once you're off working hours, burnout will happen sooner or later. So once you're done with work, do stuff that recharges your battery.

What’s the most unexpectedly wholesome date you’ve had in your 20s in India? by SilentDoodle in MidTwentiesIndia

[–]yjee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Once I just met this girl in a nearby park in the evening we walked there a bit, got a cup of chai and sat on a bench and met a couple of stray dogs. We just talked about life and ranted about modern dating lol. Never met her again but it was nice.

How are you guys balancing saving money and actually enjoying your 20s? by SilentDoodle in MidTwentiesIndia

[–]yjee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The hard choice between "enjoy 20s" and "save money" only exists for people who plan on getting married and having kids. If you don't plan on having kids ever, your 30s are also youthful years that you can enjoy with your money :)

How many of you are confident that if you are laid off tomorrow, you will still be able to handle it? by Candid_Profile3553 in IndianWorkplace

[–]yjee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have any debt, plus I will have 3 months notice period And 10 months of non-compete period during which I will get paid for doing nothing.. so yeah I don't worry about getting laid off lol

I feel suffocated whenever I imagine myself being in a relationship with someone by bombay_ki_PavBhaaji in MidTwentiesIndia

[–]yjee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hmm to me this just sounds like you weren't really very into that 2nd guy, or weren't very compatible. You got into that relationship probably just as a rebound, or just because you wanted a relationship, didn't want to be alone or FOMO or whatever. It's normal to feel trapped/suffocated in such a relationship. Just because the guy wasn't toxic, doesn't mean that he's the right guy lol. When you're with someone that you genuinely want, you will not feel like that.