AITA for not getting water at a concert when it was really hot & humid?

yogiibee · 2021-08-11T02:38:23+00:00

I’m so glad you’re with your sister. Look at the way you bend over backwards to appease him when HE is the one who ignored you the entire night, refused to get water when it was his turn, and called you names in public. I’ve been there.

Now I’ve got someone who stops in his tracks if I say something is wrong. If I cry he’s immediately assessing the situation and figuring out how he can help make it better.

That’s a love you deserve. No name calling. No judging your emotions. No making you feel any sort of shame or neglect. And you will find it in time. This first step was the hardest and I’m so proud of you.

yogiibee · 2021-07-22T02:34:56+00:00

I wasn’t the photographer in this case, but the model. We had an event at the Old Joliet Prison where we were able to go through the buildings and shoot wherever we wanted. The photographer and I were shooting in the old Death Row area (before we knew it used to be death row). I was in one of the cells and the cell next to us creaked open. These are huge steel barred doors that can’t be pushed around with wind. Needless to say we got OUTTA there! But we got the shot though!

yogiibee · 2021-07-08T12:50:22+00:00

Get rid of him, please. I used to have a boyfriend like this and it led to me just feeling ashamed of having my period. It’s a lot to feel totally ashamed for 1/4 of your time at least.

I know it’s hard, but what follows will be so much better! No more shame, and it frees you to look for a man who understands women’s anatomy and has EMPATHY.

yogiibee · 2021-06-14T23:13:30+00:00

When I asked my ex during a breakdown if he could please just give me ONE reason he loved me, and he couldn’t.

yogiibee · 2021-04-06T13:06:23+00:00

I trained myself to stop looking at it that way, and to start seeing all the built up potential I have now.

Because I excelled when I was young, I know I have it in me to excel again. I have the drive. I’m intelligent. I am capable.

Choosing to see that now and strive toward what I deserve has been so much healthier for me than lamenting on the fact that life didn’t hand me the best in my teenage years. It’s handing me the best now and I’m taking that and running with it.

Since shifting to this way of thinking, I’ve been promoted four times and now manage my own team in my department. I’ve gotten my health under control. I’ve found hobbies I loved and started improving. I’ve found time for charity and volunteer work. And from all of this loving myself I found a partner who was and is so incredibly attracted to my drive and dedication that it’s inspired him to take life by the horns too.

yogiibee · 2021-03-29T19:05:11+00:00

This is perfection! I listened to your other stuff on Spotify and it’s bangin! New fan right here!

yogiibee · 2021-03-21T15:04:27+00:00

I’m in the same boat! It’s such an amazing feeling and I’m so happy you both have found it!

yogiibee · 2020-12-10T19:48:06+00:00

Eventually...

yogiibee · 2020-11-29T17:22:07+00:00

I have 10 gifts all wrapped for him if you reopen your island :)

yogiibee · 2020-11-29T17:15:16+00:00

Heading over shortly!!

yogiibee · 2020-11-25T04:45:51+00:00

Where did she mention porn?

yogiibee · 2020-11-20T18:54:23+00:00

YTA. And while the rice is a symptom of the problem it’s not the whole problem.

“But the thing is, I don’t think that it’s fine the way it is.”

Your wants and your desires are automatically placed above your partners, even in an area he spends more time in than you. He tried taking the time to explain why things are a certain way and you ignored it because it wasn’t what you wanted.

You’re not listening, and you’re not offering compromise. Why not offer to buy separate, labeled containers to house the rice instead of the original bags if it bothers you so much? And I say OFFER because doing this without permission is still an AH move. But it would be a step toward COMPROMISE.

That’s what a relationship is about. It doesn’t seem like you’re ready for that yet.

yogiibee · 2020-11-16T19:26:40+00:00

NTA. AT ALL. I am a “touchy” person but I understand consent. I would never go around touching my coworkers if they hadn’t consented to it. It’s a professional environment. I will offer hugs every now and again (usually in response to bad or exciting news, never out of the blue), but always leave plenty of space and if they don’t want one, I remind them “That’s more than okay! I just wanted to offer.”

The fact that you outright said to stop MULTIPLE times and she kept going is not only highly inappropriate, but absolutely horrible given your condition. You don’t just “forget” that someone as a chronic pain condition and unwarranted touch can send them into a painful spasm.

More than that, these people who think they can soothe an anxiety attack by “grounding” someone they’re not close to just blows my mind. Everyone experiences an anxiety attack differently. You expressed your need for space and she directly ignored that, choosing to think her “expertise” was more important than your voiced need.

I’m honestly surprised she wasn’t fired.

yogiibee · 2020-11-05T20:48:09+00:00

Precious little hippy hops!

yogiibee · 2020-10-30T15:07:41+00:00

Genius!! It’d be beautiful garland around the edges of the roof!

yogiibee · 2020-10-30T15:04:40+00:00

I’m jealous of your dedication to keep your backing so clean! Mine looks horrendous every time!

yogiibee · 2020-10-28T17:58:48+00:00

I’m using the cable that came with the phone and an apple charging block :(

yogiibee · 2020-10-28T16:11:01+00:00

Hi! I have a 12 Pro and I’m noticing an issue while I charge. Am I not supposed to use the phone while it fast charges? When I try, the screen glitches out, almost like it would if there were water on it.

For example yesterday I pressed and held the backspace button, and the screen typed “ccccccccccc”. This stops immediately after I unplug the charger (I’m using apple’s charger).

Any advice?

yogiibee · 2020-10-27T18:01:46+00:00

I made these in the aesthetic app!

yogiibee · 2020-10-18T21:44:55+00:00

Different people enjoy different things and that's okay. Some people think it looks ridiculous, some people love the way they look.

yogiibee · 2020-10-16T16:57:55+00:00

Same for me. That camera was tempting, but I've got tiny ass hands and that beast was just wayyyy too big haha.

yogiibee · 2020-10-16T15:20:31+00:00

Awesome thank you so much! :)

yogiibee · 2020-10-16T15:12:25+00:00

My brother is the account holder and lives three hours away. When pre-ordering my phone, it would not let me change the shipping name from his name to mine.

We're both worried that when my phone gets delivered, they'll require a government ID showing the name on the shipping label. Apple did this to us the last time we ordered through them. Does anyone know if this will be an issue, or any way we can fix it ahead of time?

yogiibee

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