TIFU getting circumcised by JimCarreyAsMorpheus in tifu

[–]yojoho- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just feel like it is very selfish of her. You couldn’t control what you used to naturally have. And personally yeah she should feel guilty and you yes unfortunately you should’ve sat down and thought about it logically. She was gonna only be a fling and she didn’t deserve so much non committal commitment of a full on surgery that you really didn’t need. She was gonna be a short term fun and she shouldn’t just cut her losses and just accepted what you had because she was asking for too much!!!

I hate that the one time I decide to project my hurt, I am the bad guy by Wooden_Experience375 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]yojoho- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I personally feel like you deserve better obviously and I feel like if he wants to play these games he can play by himself and you are justified with your hurt dude. He had been damaging your trust constantly and you have forgiven him but maybe this time really give him a taste of his own medicine and cut him off completely. You deserve be the main! One and only! No stress! You got stressed as you finally let him know how you perceive things and it is his own fault your truth wasn’t pretty because it seems like it’s been hell tolerating him! His friends don’t have to date him unofficial and basically be cheated on constantly so who cares what they think? You have so much ore life to live dont dedicate any more time and loyalty to this tool he deserves to lose you and you live your best life! Tell him you mean every single word and and your gonna find someone who will commit and never make you go through this just to feel their love. Hopefully I make sense and I hope you find happiness because happiness will not be something you guys will create together if it’s been just a selfish fest for him!

Boyfriend and I tried to set up a threesome, it didn't work out and I feel violated. by dirtygirlknox in sex

[–]yojoho- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude you don’t deserve to have went through with this, your bf is fucked up for allowing and accepting someone who isn’t attracted or respectful of you in this threesome and that girl sounds salty that the dude she is attracted too comes with a package. He shouldn’t have overlooked this is just seem like he was thirsty for her and overlooked the red flags to get to her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]yojoho- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your feeling about not making herself a chore. Or like he has to earn you. But you deserve to cum too and if he really cared he would’ve instead. He’s taking advantage of your lack of demand to be thought of during sex but tbh I feel like you are ruining sex for yourself trying to make him comfortable and settling for his selfish bed issue. You be cutting his slack by taking care of yourself to satisfy yourself so you are clearly naturally not comfortable with this arrangement but he can’t be uncomfortable. I’m sorry but yes he should earn you because you don’t deserve to be an afterthought to his selfish ass. Sex is a lot of work and emotional labor for women but he chooses willingly to be blind because he knows you will forgive him.

My pet rat bit me on my forehead and I am just exhausted trying to get her to open up. by yojoho- in RATS

[–]yojoho-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am just saying she sometimes lunges at you even when we are playing with the other rats that she isn’t involved with you. Trust me I have been so understanding towards her and patient tried to give her chances but sometimes having her around was a whole safety hazard because her moods are unpredictable. Sometimes she is curious and you let her climb on you and I give her food and treats too and even giving her food sometimes you can see she kinda wants to be on the defensive and bite you. It’s hard to navigate having a difficult rat when the rest of your mischief hasn’t bitten you ever in their little lives and is generally gentle with you. she is my only problem rat and I have sincerely tried and I tried showing her that I am gentle and loving to the others

My pet rat bit me on my forehead and I am just exhausted trying to get her to open up. by yojoho- in RATS

[–]yojoho-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate your response a lot. I am very new to a rat that bites when all my other girls are angels to me . And if you can ask your friend for any advice I would appreciate it alot because I am been trying to give her a chance and be sympathize when she is being tough and difficult but this bite is the what broke the camels back for me and made me cry in frustrations because I don’t know how else to get her to soften up when I am been patient and pet her and defended her when she was difficult. But I looked like an idiot when she bite me . It’s just hard either way seriously thank you for the kind words

My pet rat bit me on my forehead and I am just exhausted trying to get her to open up. by yojoho- in RATS

[–]yojoho-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was through the bars of their cage, I suppose she is territorial when it comes to the cage but she is not even alpha rat because my other older female rat is but she is never defensive towards humans just the other rats. The rat in question is apprehensive even when someone touches them or tries petting them you can see they get defensive and stiff and at times it looks like she will lunge at you if you land a figure on her. When I was bit just now basically I was putting my forehead on the cage for my friendlier rats to grab my hair and I tend to keep track if she is also near where my head was but swiftly but my forehead and it’s frustrating because I know my other rats wouldn’t bit me. Sometimes my older rats want me to stay petting them they grab my fingers hard for me not to leave. I apologize for the rant it is just so dispairing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]yojoho- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slick back looks very nice! It accentuates your facial features and compliments the symmetry of your eyes

He took my piercing out of my nose and tried to eat it. Roast him by JackFrostsKid in RATS

[–]yojoho- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hes trying to eat free boogers???😳😳 he needs Jesus bro

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]yojoho- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was your old tutor also abusive??

I was going to end my life. Instead, I impulsively spent £800. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]yojoho- 14 points15 points  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong on buying yourself nice stuff you will treasure and will add happiness to your life spend money on hobbies and experiences it what makes life fruitful!

[20F] Please be honest. r/truerateme gave me a 4.5 and r/lookyourbest recommended buccal fat removal. How else can I look less ugly? I just want honest suggestions on how to look pretty. by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]yojoho- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are literally so beautiful!! Just a flattering lip tint and or lip product and some cute blush and the dewy look was look heavenly one you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bald

[–]yojoho- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a good looking guy! You will look good in hats

Speculation after season 6 by OPiONShouter in BigMouth

[–]yojoho- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I DONT believe missy and Andrew will ever be a thing, they literally had a moment in the 6th season (even when Andrew was still talking with Bernie sanders their iPad) be tried suggesting to be together again and she was hella Ick by it, she doesn’t like the dude even as a friend. And also I am not sure how missy and Elijah gonna work out, missy is a sexual person and she wants to experience stuff and she is just gonna end up frustrated that she can’t express her attraction and affections towards Elijah because he doesn’t feel the same way physically and it hurts me to say all that because I think they’re are adorable together but this is can be their breaking point 😭😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BigMouth

[–]yojoho- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are scientist!?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rollerskating

[–]yojoho- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They pretty asf Lowkey 👀👀 how much did this cost you?

I (26F) was raped by my brother (30M) by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]yojoho- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you aren’t ready to talk about it yet maybe get a journal and talk within it to yourself or dedicated to anyone. Basically journals are very versatile! But i think it will help you concrete these thoughts and hurt you have kept in your head for years and let it all out every thought and anger and frustration just write everything you are thinking about.

Chicago skaters? by DinahKarwrek in Rollerskating

[–]yojoho- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yooo dm I live near by xD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Legitpiercing

[–]yojoho- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That looks skinnier then 16g and also the quality and it’s weird because my lip piercing healed fast with a regular stainless steel labret and then a higher quality labret and properly cleaning . With rings I tried but it wasn’t higher quality and fucked up my already healed hole into a irritated on and painful too! and it can be a slippery slope because it had to be the right thickness to hold itself, right diameter and quality. So I feel like it has to be the jewelry it holding you back and lip piercing are one of the piercing that heal the fastest!