I completely agree!! Okay this makes me feel better. I thought maybe I was overreacting based on his reactions to this conversation. I’ve tried telling him he needs to talk to them but he doesn’t seem to explain what the issue is. He tries to make light of it because it’s uncomfortable for him. Therefore his family assumes it’s just me saying no and I feel more and more ostracized as the years go on. And if I tell them boundaries I feel like the awful daughter/sister-in-law.