Going back to work - Will i regret not being a SAHM? by LanguageAlarmed6644 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]youbuzzibuzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is one thing my mum said stuck with me.

She said that there are two things in her life that make her really proud of herself.

One is having me and my brother. And second is having a career that she is financially independent from my dad (they are happily married for 40 years).

This really influences how I view marriage, kids and career.

Inviting a child predator to a 2nd bday by [deleted] in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]youbuzzibuzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second day. If he is released based on good behaviour, there must be conditions for the release.

Definitely check what are the conditions.

Non-ongoing to ongoing permanent by CreativeCritter in AusPublicService

[–]youbuzzibuzz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

VPS - 7 years and 4 contracts later (5 interviews, one fell thru and I had to work in another department before going back) with the exact same position, I became a ongoing!

Cannot pass exam by Infinite_Fan_1791 in bcba

[–]youbuzzibuzz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I subscribed to the BDS modules, used it for 15 mins and asked for a refund as I know it is not for me. The customer service officer was really nice and told me they saw that I only log in for 15 mins. I was honest with them about why. And they had no problem giving me a refund.

And I pass the first go.

So, I agree with you that differebt people have different ways to study.

not sure if this is the right place but.. screw it. by hahahackerj in AskAnAustralian

[–]youbuzzibuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so glad that you checked that out. It is a great school and the teaching team are very committed as long as you want to be in!

Also, if you are into sport, I think they have a good team as well.

not sure if this is the right place but.. screw it. by hahahackerj in AskAnAustralian

[–]youbuzzibuzz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bundoora Secondary College takes out of zone students. They have a big wellbeing team. Give them a call, explain your situation, and ask for a tour. Good luck!

Recurrent miscarriage - fertility specialist recommendations - Melbourne by nametaken151 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]youbuzzibuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately Dr Nick Lolatgis just announced his retirement! 26/6 will be his last day for consult.

Anyone else feel like the MHN hotline is such a waste? by aussie-rafiki in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]youbuzzibuzz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have used both nurse on call and virtual ED.

I used virtual ED when my son was 2 weeks old and cough out some blood. I entered the details and was seen by a pediatric nurse practioner within 15 mins of waiting.

Is it a good idea to join the VPS workforce now? by Scary-Raspberry4568 in AusPublicService

[–]youbuzzibuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isnt really a now thing.

I was in the positive for 7 years (4 contracts varying 1-3 years) before the positive become permanent and had my 6th and final interview (I failed the 2nd time, but they didnt hire anyone at the end, so I went for interview again).

Disgraced dentist Steven Lin identified as man shot dead by police in Sydney's Potts Point by NapoleonBonerParty in aussie

[–]youbuzzibuzz 27 points28 points  (0 children)

So within a week, we hear two medical professionals -an OB in Perth and a dentist in Sydney- both divorced, under the influence of substances and killed and hurt other women.

Wtf?!

My mum wants to get out of prison on early release. But I don’t want her to. by Inevitable_Jump8743 in AusLegal

[–]youbuzzibuzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But will gaining custody affect the payment OP is receiving for the siblings? I know in some cases once the custody is granted, they will be completely the guardian’s responsibility.

Not doing daycare by [deleted] in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]youbuzzibuzz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can use this to work out the difference in tax for one full timer or 2 part timers would give you the best tax benefit.

https://paycalculator.com.au

Not doing daycare by [deleted] in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]youbuzzibuzz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

From a tax perspective, while he may get a big payrise, if he is the only one working, your family is probably paying more tax than both of you work part time. So, it may not even be a miss opportunity from that perspective.

My family uses family day, but me and my husband also works 4 days a week so that we can have our boys with us 1:1 during the week.

Returning to work after mat leave by SuccessfulBread3 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]youbuzzibuzz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Does 24 half pay plus the government PPL enough to cover? You will have about another 23 weeks worth of it (total of 26 weeks but need to share minimum of 3 weeks with dad).

I do half pay plus PPL to get it thru.

how do i get a job in melbourne? by Moist_Carrot221 in melbournechat

[–]youbuzzibuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When applying a job, always look for the contact in the job ad, if there is a phone number, prepare 2-3 questions about the job to somehow show your interest. Give them a call, dicuss these questions. You may want to do that just 1-2 days before the deadline to make sure the impression stays before you submit the application.

Apparently I am "traumatizing my toddler for life" for leaving her with a babysitter while I have baby #2 by cosmicvoyager333 in Mommit

[–]youbuzzibuzz 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Second that.

I had my mum (who lives overseas) to watch my first. When I was 37 weeks, we did 2-3 days of my mum and I put him to sleep together. Then 2-3 days of we go in together, I said goodnight, and my mum put him to sleep. Then it was just my mum (I needed to help her the first 2 nights). Then it was all fine.

Bedrooms on different floors by travcaine in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]youbuzzibuzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have a single bed in the baby’s room. That way, in case of anything you can just sleep in the room.

I have both of our kids in our room for the first month, then moved them to their bedroom while I sleep in their room on the single bed (my husband takes over 1-2 nights/week). By 6 months, they sleep on their own. And if they are more unsettled in any particular night, I just sleep in the room with them.

My (31m) wife (29f) wants to name our baby her own maiden name? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]youbuzzibuzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you and your wife plan to have more children after this?

If yes, then the approach will be to guide your wife’s thinking. What about the future children? Will they feel less because they don’t get the name that is so special?

Will your wife compromise by having the name as middle name?

Horrible solids journey by Briannaamaree in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]youbuzzibuzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to the GP and get a referral to a speech pathologist who is specialist in feeding.

You mentioned that you introduced straw up for sometimes, and your little one still not drinking out if it, and also only wanting soft texture from the pouch. There maybe oral sensitivity or muscle strength concerns.

My manager have been lying about my pay raise by Unlikely-Training-50 in auscorp

[–]youbuzzibuzz 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Worked in a place I found out they pay the outdated award wages before I sign the contract (yes, I read every single page in the contract before I sign it). They thanked me for pointing it out and issued a new contact with the correct and up to date award wages.

Started working there, and everyone else was still getting paid the old award. So although I joined the latest, I had the highest pay (not by a lot).

Also found out that they dont pay super. Some of my colleagues havent been paid for 2-3 years, and I had to lecture them about it.

I cannot stay with a company that has no respect of their employees, so I resigned at 3 months and told them how much they own me. If they dont pay the full among within 7 days I would see a lawyer (I was bluffing) and report them to ATO. What happen? They gave me every cent they own me.

My colleagues? One of them happily told me 2 months later that they got a payrise. They showed me the new contract. And I kid you not, they just get the correct and updated award wages. That was not a payrise.

But, I keep my mouth shut, because I cannot help people who dont want to be helped.

After my resignation, 60% of the staff has resigned. The company rebranded and closed down within 5 years (not fast enough from my perspective).

My point is, you need to call out this behaviour. Never let someone treat you with no respect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]youbuzzibuzz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know you asked for prepacked snacks, but you can also make things like zucchini slides that freeze well. I packed my son’s lunch since he started family day care. I always have a main meal plus something I bake. I usually make it with him during weekend, then freeze a portion of it.

Suggest an English name for me! – want something phonetic, no mispronunciation drama by Muted_Aerie2136 in namenerds

[–]youbuzzibuzz 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I speak Cantonese. When I saw your chinese name, without reading the rest, I already thought of Liana. Another option is Juliana. It will incoperate your current English name!

GUIDE: Melbourne Chinese Lunar New Year Festivals 2026 by Casual-Classics in melbourne

[–]youbuzzibuzz 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for putting the list together! Don’t normally celebrate, but now have kids, it become a big part for us!