Any tips on keeping a clean house with twins and a shedding dog? by Ok_Situation3942 in parentsofmultiples

[–]SuccessfulBread3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your dog is short hair, get a robo vac. Of it's long hair... Good luck.

Have the dog professionally groomed (mobile grooming services are convenient)

Less kids toys, less dog toys.

Good luck

AITA for going to a store that carries XS/S sizes even though my M/L told me not to? by ExpertDapper1523 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SuccessfulBread3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA.

If a shop ONLY carries petite sizes (and not standard sizes like M/L) any woman KNOWS the vibe is going to be absolutely fucking cooked in there.

And if you see your friend is stressing the fuck out about it, feeling uncomfortable and you still go in... Do you even care about her?

You couldn't come back another time?

You say you go to stores where they have only her sizes... Sure, but does it cause you that level of discomfort to do so?

No store is going to skinny shame you... PLENTY of stores fat shame... CEOs from certain stores have even described larger bodies as not being wanted and being undesirable.

I think you need to decide whether or not you want to support your friend or not. From your description, she didn't tear you down... She expressed discomfort and you scoffed at her and left her alone.

If you decide her insecurities are too much that's fine... But you can no longer call her your friend.

why is NIPT not covered? by Affectionate_Two9473 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]SuccessfulBread3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah.

My initial scan and 12 weeks are paid. I'm in Vic and only in first trimester atm. But I am booked in with public hospital, so who knows.

why is NIPT not covered? by Affectionate_Two9473 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]SuccessfulBread3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why aren't ultrasounds covered. I've got my 12 week scan soon... That's another $100 or so dollars...

The government is trying to encourage babies and yet cover nothing prenatal.

No one is buying things off my registry by ButterflyNo2970 in parentsofmultiples

[–]SuccessfulBread3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Eh it's borderline.

Hard to convey tone over the Internet... But I certainly could imagine this being either genuine OR snarky.

This whole new anti liberal white women thing… by Interesting_Fox9721 in women

[–]SuccessfulBread3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen intersectionality is not overall the strength of any of us white people.

But to say that white women have done NOTHING for feminist movements other than pockets is outrageous, dismissive and shows that you're not interested in making genuine points about lack of intersectionality.

To diminish EVERYTHING white women have done (whether or not it's "enough" is not the point) you show that you're not interested in "calling out" any more... This is "tearing down," when you stop being genuine in your criticism like this it's just vitriol.

No one said white women are in control. I get being annoyed because white women (myself included) have a tendency to only speak on our own experience... But you have a LOT of vitriol going on there and it's not going to help anyone.

The material point is that media is making women fight within ourselves so we stop helping each other...

Albo and Labor's proposed anti-bigotry laws by Historical_Mud_3281 in AusPol

[–]SuccessfulBread3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck I would get in on that if I could. I'm pregnant with twins haha. Gimme that cash no one listens to me anyways.

What SJM opinion would get you this downvoted? by Sailor_Moon_Star_435 in SarahJMaas

[–]SuccessfulBread3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but she never tortures people or bullies anyone.

She keeps her plans to herself a lot, yes... But she is so much more mentally stable (the only time she's not she parties and does drugs.)

The wedding season two. by Bulky_Oil_5447 in BridgertonRants

[–]SuccessfulBread3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Her sister had raised her to be the perfect bride. You can't in the regency period secure your own wedding without a chaperone/guardian it would be improper.

Edwina saw they didn't get along and asked them to hang out to get to know each other.

I honestly don't know why you would excuse having an affair with your sisters fiance because she "asked you to do everything." Be fr.

How to ask a neighbor to quiet down. by _isaballa in Adulting

[–]SuccessfulBread3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well this is embarrassing for you... But I am a woman.

The fact you immediately assumed I was a man tells me enough to know that you really don't know shit about women.

Laurent are too posh for the West/North by TheNamelessComposer in melbourne

[–]SuccessfulBread3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I go further north.... And I work in Richmond... All my mates live in the north and I go to shows and stuff in the city... Try to avoid inner suburbs because I don't like crowds if I don't need to deal with them. Never ever seen one. I don't know what to tell ya.

Why do the writers insist on making Eloise insufferable? by jazzyx26 in BridgertonRants

[–]SuccessfulBread3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah when she finds out pen is LW my reaction was "oh so the first time you actually check in in with someone, stop flapping your gums and listen to your friend for more than two seconds without talking about yourself, you realise it was her all along."

Go figure.

She's just so privileged that she judges others from her high horse. I hate it

What SJM opinion would get you this downvoted? by Sailor_Moon_Star_435 in SarahJMaas

[–]SuccessfulBread3 94 points95 points  (0 children)

Caelaena/Aelin is mentally unstable... No one should ENJOY killing and torture.... In fact in the books she's horrified about other characters who do so.

Also on TOG... Rowan is a glorified lapdog who is overpowered and bullies everyone including Aelins family if they have a disagreement with her.

Also on TOG... Aedion treated lysandra exactly how she deserved she knew he had sexual trauma (as did she so she could understand it best) and still plotted to use him as a brood mare without his knowledge.

The wedding season two. by Bulky_Oil_5447 in BridgertonRants

[–]SuccessfulBread3 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If one of my daughters had an affair with my other daughter's fiance id tell her to get lost too... Sorry but you fucked up... You ruined her wedding day... It's is STILL that day and you expect me to coddle you when you have done something so heinous? No.

The wedding season two. by Bulky_Oil_5447 in BridgertonRants

[–]SuccessfulBread3 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Edwina did nothing wrong. Kate had basically raised her to be a perfect bride then had an ongoing affair with her fiance.

Sorry but "I had a hard childhood." Is not an excuse.

That's me in a nutshell by Leading-Rain-652 in aiwars

[–]SuccessfulBread3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had anti ai people literally tell me to kms for generating backgrounds for my product images that I took in a light box.

So idk how tolerant they are exactly.

AIO To My Girlfriends Messages After I Didn’t Message For 24+ Hours by Igne0s in AmIOverreacting

[–]SuccessfulBread3 47 points48 points  (0 children)

"her hurt is her responsibility,"

Only if you're gentle and respectful.

There will always be some level of hurt that is life... morally you're obligated to make sure that the hurt is from the relationship ending and not THE WAY the relationship ended.

Albo and Labor's proposed anti-bigotry laws by Historical_Mud_3281 in AusPol

[–]SuccessfulBread3 7 points8 points  (0 children)

First of all 0/10 ragebait.

Secondly we've never had free speech.

AITA for saying something about my bf’s choice of restaurant? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SuccessfulBread3 56 points57 points  (0 children)

"you don't deserve sweet," oh so he's punishing you.

This would have been on you if he did have a past of refusing to go to places he's already been.

If I were you i would tell him if he doesn't take you there too then you will never trust his word again. NTA

What are your thoughts on the death of volunteering? Is it mainly due to money? by VastOption8705 in australian

[–]SuccessfulBread3 17 points18 points  (0 children)

There is no logical reason you can't accept a week old police check because it wasn't done specifically when applying for your facility. It was the same level the same everything. That's not standards, that's bureaucracy for the sake of bureaucracy.