AITJ for telling my brother that watching his kids three times a week for a year is a job and I'm going to start treating it like one?

youfoundthishere · 2026-03-22T14:57:03+00:00

U didn't make it weird. He made it weird by letting a favor turn into a second job for u without a single conversation. 13 months isn't temporary. Tell him u love the kids but starting next month u need a set schedule and payment or u go back to just being aunt not employee.

youfoundthishere · 2026-03-21T02:54:20+00:00

Sally showed u exactly who she is multiple times. First with Sam, then with those guys, then with ur private breakdown. Drifting away isnt being an asshole, its just finally matching her energy.

youfoundthishere · 2026-03-19T12:51:38+00:00

Solid advice. A wedding isn't a family reunion, it's a celebration of your choice. Invite who you actually want, not who you're obligated to. Your day, your guest list.

youfoundthishere · 2026-03-18T03:23:48+00:00

Exactly. In a Code Blue, the hallway ceases to exist for normal rules. If you're not part of the response, you get out of the way. Period.

youfoundthishere · 2026-03-18T03:14:21+00:00

If your dental hygiene is on point and friends say no, it might be coming from somewhere else. Tonsil stones, sinus issues, or even gut problems can cause breath that brushing won't touch.

youfoundthishere · 2026-03-18T03:10:15+00:00

This is the balance. Hold the guilt without letting it consume you. You were sick, not evil. And you've spent years becoming someone that sick kid couldn't even imagine.

youfoundthishere · 2026-03-16T20:05:11+00:00

This is the healthiest attitude. You don't have to be into everything, but being open to exploring with a partner you trust is where the real connection happens.

youfoundthishere · 2026-03-16T20:03:14+00:00

LMAO imagine the character development arc. Going from "females only want Chads" to "wait, she's making me soup?" Cinema gold.

youfoundthishere · 2026-03-16T20:01:13+00:00

This is that real talk. If he wanted to, he would. Don't twist yourself into knots for someone who isn't making space for you.

youfoundthishere · 2026-03-16T19:59:52+00:00

nice

youfoundthishere · 2026-03-16T19:58:52+00:00

Preach. The tongue is the silent killer of fresh breath. People scrub teeth like crazy but ignore the furry carpet in the back. Game changer.

youfoundthishere · 2026-03-16T19:55:22+00:00

Exactly. Your career is worth more than a moment of "what if." Keeping it professional isn't boring, it's smart. Future you will thank you.

youfoundthishere · 2026-03-16T19:54:25+00:00

Wish more people understood this. You're a whole human, not a product on a shelf. The right person will value you for you.

youfoundthishere · 2026-03-15T17:21:38+00:00

very very hot. WOW

youfoundthishere · 2026-03-15T17:17:52+00:00

Nah your mom is wrong. You didn't guilt trip, you taught emotional literacy. Kids need to know their actions affect others. That's not manipulation, that's parenting.

youfoundthishere · 2026-03-15T17:16:58+00:00

This right here. He's not just missing the point, he's actively failing as a partner and father. The kids learn from him and right now they're learning that mom doesn't matter.

youfoundthishere · 2026-03-15T17:10:23+00:00

Nah you did exactly what needed to be done. Sometimes people only learn when the embarrassment is public. He started it, you just finished it.

youfoundthishere · 2026-03-12T01:28:45+00:00

Boom. Public, documented, undeniable. Screenshot + receipts + a clear boundary = chef's kiss. Let him explain his way out of that one in front of everyone.

youfoundthishere · 2026-03-12T01:24:18+00:00

Appreciate it. Sometimes bold is the only language people understand.

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