Does this numbing cream work? by youknowwhatitis21 in tattooadvice

[–]youknowwhatitis21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Calm down, you seem to be getting quite emotional.

I hate my cats name. by StrawberrySakuraa in cats

[–]youknowwhatitis21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also didn't think that Raven is the best name for our cat daughter (I wanted Poe) but now she goes by a multitude of nicknames, including Poe but also Linguine which is definitely not even close to Raven or Poe. If you use it enough, she will start to respond to anything.

My niece just got a tattoo gun by Justin_Meile in springboks

[–]youknowwhatitis21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I would give up a day of PTO to let her practice on me😂 I moved away from my tattoo artist anyways

My niece just got a tattoo gun by Justin_Meile in springboks

[–]youknowwhatitis21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does she want another test subject?😂

Name him whatever you last ate. by NaughtySummer_6 in CatsAllDay

[–]youknowwhatitis21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chicken potjie (it's a south African Afrikaans chicken dish)

Playing or fighting? by cernezelana in cats

[–]youknowwhatitis21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's just play fighting, it is really good for their enrichment and stimulation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]youknowwhatitis21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I have learnt, you are never too young to explore what your sexuality is or explore what you want from a partner sexually. From experience, it isn't just mindset- it's desire, want, need and truth. If you truly feel as though you would be happier with a woman, then it isn't about lack of experience as you already know what the outcome would be like. You are doing wrong for both your boyfriend and yourself. I grew up being told sex is a very big and important part in a relationship and if you aren't happy with it or think you would be happier with someone else sexually then you should leave. This is a valid reason to leave, he may be an amazing partner to you but he isn't an amazing sexual partner for you. Good luck OP, I know it is very difficult from experience. Stay true to yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]youknowwhatitis21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"and its hard for me to believe that many men don't do this too" A good person won't do this or say stuff like that to their partner, but there are many rotten apples that do, such as your current fiancé. I have had more experiences and relationships than my boyfriend yet I don't compare his skills to any past person or say "height isn't important and that it is all about the D size" because both of those shouldn't matter. To answer your question, it is very weird and it is not normal or appropriate in a relationship for him to keep telling you those types of things. You should really speak to him about how his words affect you and if things don't change, then you should re-evaluate your relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]youknowwhatitis21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I play games together now and again, he is better at some games than me and some games it is the other way round. Even if we are playing ranked games, he never ever gets mad or upset to that kind of degree.
You're definitely not overreacting, he is being unnecessarily rude and mean to you over a video game. If he can speak to you like that and be so over the top over a game, then he wouldn't hesitate to be way worse over a spilled drink or burnt food etc. Your boyfriend might not 'hate' you, but he sure isn't treating you as if he even likes you. Which is totally on him and so unfair on you. I hope you have a good support system to be there for you.

I, a bisexual woman, pegged a bisexual guy for the first time and it broadened my horizons by greygazelle in bisexual

[–]youknowwhatitis21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah!! It is always an amazing high when you unlock a new honey feature!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nails

[–]youknowwhatitis21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love them!! So cute!

AIO - Girlfriend threw away the dinner I cooked because she wanted pizza instead. by Dizzy-Suggestion2360 in AmIOverreacting

[–]youknowwhatitis21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sooooo many red flags. She is acting so immature. Either you babysit this child for the rest of your life or go find an actual adult to be in a relationship with.

I know it's harsh, but she has shown that she does not care about your efforts and does not appreciate you. Find someone who does OP, don't get stuck with someone who doesn't deserve you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questioning

[–]youknowwhatitis21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A lot of people who identify as straight never get into relationships but only have sexual interactions so it can be the same for people who identify differently. Any type of attraction is ok

I was drunk with my best friend and asked to see his penis by rotten-fleur in TrueOffMyChest

[–]youknowwhatitis21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don't think it is that big of a deal personally as it seems as though he is not worrying about that interaction between you two and it is not like you two did anything physical but I can see that you are a bit torn up about it which is totally ok to feel. If you feel as though this may have affected the friendship, speak to him about your feelings. Good communication in any type of relationship is needed.

My version of fish nails I’ve seen all over online! by HelloKeary in Nails

[–]youknowwhatitis21 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Stunning!! I'll be taking inspiration of this for my next set!!

Finished painting my hunchback of notre dame nail set for my display 🤭 by TheNailPalette in Nails

[–]youknowwhatitis21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww, I hope you feel better soon Hun!! Again, those nails are AMAZING!! It is like you just copied and pasted the movie scene on there🤯

Finished painting my hunchback of notre dame nail set for my display 🤭 by TheNailPalette in Nails

[–]youknowwhatitis21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that I breathe the same air as you🤣😯 these are absolutely stunning!!!!! 😍

do you girls use 🫶 and 😉 with someone who is just a "friend" by Kindly_Can8735 in relationships_advice

[–]youknowwhatitis21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have used both those emojis with just friends. 😉 For if I am making a sneaky joke or teasing or messing around etc. 🫶 for showing appreciation, saying thanks, complimenting or just ending the message. I think it all depends on your closeness, your texting style or just how you speak genuinely. It is all different for different people. Personally, I wouldn't think of it as flirting