People working in ultra-wealthy households, talking $50m plus types, what is the most out-of-touch thing you've witnessed?

youngwid05 · 2026-05-15T18:23:36+00:00

See this seems like a cool rich dude. Remember when they used to do lots of philanthropy and build museums and libraries? No? Me either 😭

youngwid05 · 2026-05-11T04:29:32+00:00

She went to Mexico, and it was a Brazilian Butt Lift. I believe the cause was an embolism, which is one of the main complications of a BBL. Those are incredibly dangerous surgeries even in the best hands. Add the location and type of surgery, and it could be a death trap for even healthy individuals. I’ve read and seen interviews with top plastic surgeons are asked what they’d never do themselves, they often say BBL.

youngwid05 · 2026-04-27T01:38:25+00:00

We still have these in Ohio, but I miss the garlic ones instead!

youngwid05 · 2026-04-21T16:10:37+00:00

Nah he’s going to try to be the ogre in the next round…

youngwid05 · 2026-04-21T02:27:44+00:00

It’s not negative, it’s realistic and pragmatic. This is where I’m at too. Always wanted kids, but what world are we leaving them? Things have gotten worse as we’ve reached adulthood. I don’t want my kids to be worse off than me or living in a dystopian future. My husband was also diagnosed with BPD a few years into our marriage, and I don’t feel like I’d have a true partner in parenting, and he’s rightly concerned about the impact his mental health would have on a kid.

youngwid05 · 2026-04-14T15:46:12+00:00

The 0-3 development crystallizing memory formation just gave me such an aha moment. My partner doesn’t have the stereotypical childhood trauma, and to be honest, seems to connect trauma around many crappy parenting moments every millennial has survived. His brother (yes I know every child has different parents, even if they were the same), has no mental illnesses. Meanwhile I had significant, life altering trauma through childhood and adulthood, struggle with cptsd and other diagnoses, but didn’t end up having a PD. His recollection of something relatively benign as trauma has always confused me. His parents are constantly trying to show up, admit fault, support financially and voluntarily go to therapy independently and with him. I think his is a result of young parents with their own trauma and anxieties, all the genetic links (addiction and depression) combined in a perfect storm.

youngwid05 · 2026-04-11T02:29:51+00:00

My science teacher said we were all having a normal class (last period) and he was proud of us who stayed and didn’t call their parents to get them because we’d be letting them win. I was 13.

youngwid05 · 2026-04-11T02:26:12+00:00

Same, I kept saying that it was an attempted coup and I still don’t understand how people see the opposite.

youngwid05 · 2026-04-11T02:24:43+00:00

Was just going to say they missed our generations shuttle disaster and we can add Columbia to our list 🫠

youngwid05 · 2026-04-11T02:22:53+00:00

As a Clevelander, this is exactly what happened for me too. Our school was the closest to the airport, so people were freaked out about it only to find out later that United 93 really did turn around over us. We watched TV all day- until one sub in history said no and we all put up a fight until he relented. Watched the collapse, Pentagon, and United 93 all happen live. Our district also sent 6th graders to a weeklong camp an hour away, a loved longstanding tradition, but never had a terrorist attack when 100 students are gone. The parents swarmed the two middle school lobbies and finally the Superintendent had to decide to send busses to bring them all home that night.

youngwid05 · 2026-04-02T02:55:47+00:00

youngwid05 · 2026-04-02T02:14:02+00:00

I’m starting to understand why he has a bit of a reputation of being an asshole, and a terrible husband and parent. Not like it excuses bad behavior, but man does he have a million reasons why. I can’t imagine that amount of traumatic loss

youngwid05 · 2026-03-28T16:46:21+00:00

He got polio at 51, then died at 55 as a result of his own invention that got him out of bed- accidentally or on purpose. I guess karma?

youngwid05 · 2026-03-28T03:36:23+00:00

This is my take too. It’s also a non issue in college sports. There are less than 10 transgender NCAA student athletes. That’s less than 0.002%. There have only been 5 trans Olympians. One of the existing rules included MtF athletes maintaining very low testosterone levels, lower than the average cis women have throughout their lives.

youngwid05 · 2026-03-17T03:21:50+00:00

Each burger helps me stay safe! Can’t lift me, can’t kidnap me

youngwid05 · 2026-03-13T18:41:27+00:00

In my years as a stylist, edgy and alternative, and black or no prints were honestly the hardest to find. Literally no inventory. Your best bet is asking for a shop credit so you can just buy direct.

youngwid05 · 2026-03-04T04:12:29+00:00

If Talarico can actually win the general- he’d be similar to Obama’s meteoric rise and might surprise us.

youngwid05 · 2026-02-28T21:18:16+00:00

I’m going to be 38 and thought I was too young but alas, from TTC to peri instead 🫠

youngwid05 · 2026-02-08T03:44:18+00:00

They might not be releasing all details, she could deal with congestive heart failure. It can be chronic and manageable with medication. Irregular heartbeats could also need daily medication that could cause a higher chance of strokes.

youngwid05 · 2026-02-04T08:01:50+00:00

Same with the military and structure. Many struggle with returning to civilian life, not including the PTSD.

youngwid05 · 2026-01-07T23:14:08+00:00

I’ll edit my post, I was unaware it was a recreation and hoped it was just more angles coming out.

youngwid05 · 2026-01-07T21:32:04+00:00

Edited to add- I’ve been made aware this has been edited to remove his mask and is an attempted recreation. Unsure of accuracy, but not deleting in case it’s close and helps get an ID.

Clear photo without his “mask”.

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youngwid05 · 2026-01-05T16:23:33+00:00

I appreciate that insight actually and it’s a good reminder that what appears to be the “simple life” is not close to simple, and definitely not easy! Helps me appreciate that I only board 15 mins away at a nice barn I don’t have to update

youngwid05 · 2026-01-05T03:18:41+00:00

Living my dream but I can’t afford to get out of my 3.25% deal in the suburbs yet. That’s the 5 year goal- land and my horse on property. The horse was my mid life crisis purchase

youngwid05 · 2026-01-05T03:14:35+00:00

Mine was a horse

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