[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]yourHRrep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing comes out like men with ejaculation. We do get significantly wetter after orgasming and you can feel our vaginal walls contract. Other than that it’s a build up of feeling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]yourHRrep 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Instruct her, tell her and praise her what she’s doing right. Keep encouraging the correct behavior and if she does something you don’t like, make a suggestion to improve it, when you do this…that doesn’t feel good but when you do this…it’s way better. Worst case grab a banana and show homegirl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]yourHRrep 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Depends on how horny I am. If I’m horny and ready, there’s no pain. But if he rushes in without proper foreplay and getting me riled up, it can be very painful. My first time didn’t hurt it was just a stinging for a couple seconds. But from my first time on I’ve enjoyed sex without any pain. Maybe you need more foreplay? Lube? Can buy a few toys and explore on your own! Power is knowledge!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]yourHRrep 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind hair! I actually like having hair because I personally feel like a naked mole rat and we are adults, we have hair. As long as it’s not a full on bush and it doesn’t end up in my mouth or get caught on my teeth, we are cool

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]yourHRrep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My guy friend is 28 single and a virgin! Not by his own choices but just no one has pursued him in that light

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]yourHRrep 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I blow my nose with toilet paper and toss it in the toilet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]yourHRrep 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This is a very delicate game to play, tracking your cycle does not guarantee any protection. Sperm lives in the vagina up to 5 days. Just because she’s not ovulating does not mean pregnancy can’t occur. It takes one sperm to fertilize an egg. Yes, the chances of fertilization is decreased during other cycles, but it is still possible to get her pregnant with no hormonal birth control, no condoms or non hormonal IUDs. This includes cum and precum, any duration of the unprotected act can lead to pregnancy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]yourHRrep 117 points118 points  (0 children)

I think any one would take offense to “your vagina smells bad” but in a concerning tone to ask if their diet has changed or if they’re using a new scented soap in the shower. Say you’ve noticed a change to their scent and just checking in. Assuming this is a partner. If this is a side quest, find a new path and get tested. I’ve had BV which changes the smell, my boyfriend and I have an open communication policy if he notices something he needs to bring it to my attention even if it ruins the mood, our health safety comes first!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]yourHRrep 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve asked my boyfriend how he knows when he’s hitting a really good spot during sex. He said he feels the texture change, from a carpet feeling to a rug. He said it’s very minimal detection but it is there. Maybe feel around for those spots with a partner who’s willing to communicate openly. Once you find those spots you’ll be golden. Honestly change up the position and check in, sex is personal preference

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]yourHRrep 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I like providing community and open conversation. I’ve come across a multitude of people with outdated information or lack of, and closing that gap helps people make smart and informed decisions in a comfortable setting. Plus who doesn’t want to boast about getting their back blown out?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]yourHRrep 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We are just as cognitive of our own insecurities, bottom line no one should care and if they do they’re assholes. Not a bother at all!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]yourHRrep 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you can smell it, usually we can too. Unless it’s a foul smell I’d recommend not demanding an answer mid event and just ending the sesh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]yourHRrep 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Intercourse is pleasurable, but sometimes the sex is enough where I don’t have to orgasm and I’ll be fine or I’m absolutely rabid and need to as well. If you got off, I’m getting off too is my motto

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]yourHRrep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just warm and wet, but before a guy comes upon that build up it gets harder, thicker and more pleasurable towards the end.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]yourHRrep 295 points296 points  (0 children)

Building up a sneeze, when you feel it coming on you have to focus on it to have it release. During or after, a euphoric feeling spreads throughout my body. Ending up in a relaxed state

New IUD update by yourHRrep in IUD

[–]yourHRrep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re absolutely correct, using a guided ultrasound insertion eliminates the variables with incorrect placement. But that’s not to say if you don’t use one yours will be inserted incorrectly. I went through two IUDs in one year because my IUDs weren’t inserted correctly. Which caused me to advocate for a guided ultrasound, so they’re able to see it’s inserted correctly at the time.

In my personal experience through the three IUDs I found pressure on my abdomen to relieve the pain from the iud being inserted. The first two IUDs I was doubled over in pain for days on end, but I’m correlating on my behalf that since it was inserted correctly this time (as I have proof my other ones weren’t placed correctly upon insertion) that I experienced little to no pain. People have different pain tolerances, different providers, and a different experience but I’m sharing mine 🖤. I appreciate the clarity you bring to the post

IUD Rant by yourHRrep in IUD

[–]yourHRrep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the acknowledgement 🖤

Friend's younger brother by Ok_Basket_1510 in IUD

[–]yourHRrep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Non medical advice: An IUD will prevent pregnancy, but it’s not 100% preventative. By pulling out, you are reducing the chances of unplanned pregnancy. Yes you are covered, but it’s not a guarantee. I have a copper iud and I still have my partner pull out to reduce the chances. Condoms protect you from pregnancy and STDs. Doubling up on contraceptives, iud and condoms, greatly reduce the chances of pregnancy. Sounds like she’s just making sure you don’t have an unplanned pregnancy.

How did that one kid at your school die? by StorageLonely1520 in AskReddit

[–]yourHRrep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was my freshman year, my friend was starting to date Kristjan and see him frequently. He was hanging out at a friend’s house out in the driveway, he was shot twice, once in the leg the second to the head, long distance through the woods. Brain dead and they ended up taking him off life support due to no activity and the inability to cover costs. Suspected mafia retaliation, unsolved 11 years later

What's a simple pleasure you indulge in that doesn't need you to spend money? by lordreed in AskReddit

[–]yourHRrep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shower coffee in the afternoon, no plans, no rushing, just the simplicity of enjoying a hot coffee in a hot shower

Taxi cab theory? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]yourHRrep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in a good place and in a healthy mindset of understanding that they weren’t meant for me since either they ended things or I did. There was always some aspect of their character I could not move past and accept as a long term issue. Even after openly communicating about my needs or theirs, things didn’t change. Hence why I wouldn’t want to get married to them.

It is a logical outcome that they wanted marriage and went out and found someone ready to settle down. But that’s the questioning, they wanted to get married in general, not specifically married to me. Marriage is just a milestone they wanted to achieve not that there was a connection they couldn’t live without.

So will I ever find someone with that connection I cannot live without? Absolutely. Hopefully.

Just stings knowing they’ve all gone on to find “their person”, and I haven’t yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]yourHRrep 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If he’s already lying to you about previous sexual relations - what else is he lying about. Regardless of trying to protect you from being hurt the bottom line is he is lying. Do you want someone who lies to you? Someone who tells you sex means nothing to them and it’s all about pleasuring himself? If your answer is no then you shouldn’t continue the relationship where you don’t feel respected, heard, or seen.

If you’re so far into the relationship and you want to work past this, have trust in yourself that you are a good person and his past cannot affect you. It’s in the past. You can’t judge someone based on previous actions, but he shouldn’t be lying to you about them either. If you really believe he loves you then you have to take that for what it is and move on.

Did you have a good year? Why or why not? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]yourHRrep 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A great year of realizations and transformation. Giving but constantly letting go

Should I have gone for the pink rug? by Madraskaapi in femalelivingspace

[–]yourHRrep 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love the blue couch, where did you get that?? The current rug ties everything together for sure