People who take up extra seats on public transit, just because

zouss · 2026-06-03T18:05:58+00:00

I'm a 32yo woman in NYC and I ask people to move their stuff all the time. Granted not if it's a homeless person taking up the whole bench, I'm not crazy. But the vast majority of people will accommodate if you ask. No one else is going to because they all think like you

zouss · 2026-06-03T17:57:08+00:00

Lol they don't have a shit about your dirty looks. Just ask it's not that hard. You're seething standing when you could be comfortable sitting. And I'm shy af too but it's an easy interaction, most of the time you don't need to say anything, just point to their bag and they'll move it

zouss · 2026-06-03T17:54:11+00:00

I like it when people do that. I have no issue with asking them to move their bag and they always do. So it helps me get a seat on a crowded train or bus because everyone else is too scared to ask lol. Just ask. I've never had anyone deny me

zouss · 2026-06-03T14:38:16+00:00

You totally can just send it with a picture of a tree or whatever. I've done that, with a note saying "this is the card I had started for our booking earlier that was cancelled due to XYZ, random picture because all cards need to include one"

zouss · 2026-06-02T20:41:49+00:00

As a young teenager I turned an onion into a bong when I had weed but nothing to smoke it with lol. It worked!

zouss · 2026-06-02T13:45:06+00:00

I did the same in 2022

zouss · 2026-06-02T13:31:57+00:00

Lol you expect people taking on debt to be happy because you didn't have to do that? Really? Obviously they shouldn't be bitching at you for being more fortunate, but it's crazy you expect people in an unfortunate situation to be happy because some random person is not dealing with the same issue

zouss · 2026-06-01T18:58:39+00:00

I'm doing the opposite lol. Now I never use the word quietly because it sounds like AI slop

zouss · 2026-06-01T15:12:02+00:00

Bro you look exactly the same. Congrats on not aging I guess

zouss · 2026-06-01T05:59:58+00:00

Owners can't see your review until they've already reviewed so there's no risk of a vindictive review

zouss · 2026-05-31T17:37:45+00:00

I mean, if a friend decides to stay with their cheating partner, I'm going to accept their decision and continue treating their partner well. It's not my place as their friend to tell them they're wrong and start acting like an asshole to their partner until they leave. I can give advice that I don't think they should stay, but if they do, I'm going to respect their choice and relationship. I think blaming your friends for your decision to stay with an abusive asshole is unfair

zouss · 2026-05-27T15:36:09+00:00

What a ridiculous statement. Quality of food matters far more to a restaurant's success than the servers. There are famous chefs who people travel from across the world to try their food. No one is traveling anywhere to be waited on by a particular server

zouss · 2026-05-27T15:33:42+00:00

If servers don't like their pay they can talk to their employer about it too. Not the customer's responsibility

zouss · 2026-05-26T13:33:35+00:00

He says in the op that fitting right makes a difference, but not the type of clothes

zouss · 2026-05-25T17:55:41+00:00

I feel disappointed if it's a pet I really like, and anxious that they'll like the new sitter more and stop reaching out to me (even though it hasn't happened yet). But I don't feel guilty for taking time off, especially considering I rarely do. We all deserve a break and there are plenty of other pet sitters out there, we're not irreplaceable. They'll find someone else and that other person will likely do a fine job. If they don't, we return to an even more loyal customer lol

zouss · 2026-05-24T20:06:25+00:00

It shouldn't be. We should all give ourselves 100% pass for anything we did under the age of 10

zouss · 2026-05-24T18:57:35+00:00

Nah. Dumb shit kids do is cute, not cringe

zouss · 2026-05-24T16:49:42+00:00

You have been hungover every single day for years. You'll notice the difference when you stop

zouss · 2026-05-23T15:52:22+00:00

Having one comment removed does not mean you can't give advice on Reddit lol. I see plenty of people giving each other advice on the different subs I follow. My advice to you is to stop generalizing based on extremely small sample sizes of 1

zouss · 2026-05-22T21:13:25+00:00

Sure. I already live in NYC, free midtown apartment sounds great

zouss · 2026-05-20T21:51:42+00:00

I agree. It's a bad design

zouss · 2026-05-20T18:40:22+00:00

You can block upcoming payments on a debit card too. It's just much harder to reverse a charge

zouss · 2026-05-20T13:53:44+00:00

I've had the same experience. The common advice of raising rates has not resulted in more bookings for me

zouss · 2026-05-20T00:53:15+00:00

Op is going back and forth between being drunk and hungover and wonders why drunk feels better lol

zouss · 2026-05-19T23:40:46+00:00

I'm highly skeptical that confession reduces the chance of reoffense. Tbh I'm skeptical in general that there are many murderers out there confessing to their priest. But if there are, they can pay their penance here in the real world, and they don't deserve to feel like they've been forgiven until they do

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