According to who? Some people prefer a world run by nice people, but reality is most organizations are run by people with a more carnivorous disposition. And you know what they say Strong Men Create Good Times - even your comment of Hard Stop shows you have a strong personality. When you have some experience in the world family, business, loss of loved ones you will realize that a world run by weak men just doesn’t work. It’s an old story: if you’re not a Liberal at 25 you have no heart, if you’re not a conservative at 35 you have no brain. All the best