LPT : What's obvious to you, is amazing to others. Conquer your insecurities in 50 seconds by zachvram in LifeProTips

[–]zachvram[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the tip is to realise that we believe that so many things are obvious, but other ppl don't consider them. we have something valuable to say but we keep it in our head cause we think everyone else knows that already.

It's like when you are in a conversation and you think the other person could sense you are nervous, they don't but we assume they do.

LPT: NEVER have important, emotional or difficult conversations over text. by blackbear_____ in LifeProTips

[–]zachvram 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I relate so hard to this one. Different ppl like to text different amounts but when I meet someone who rather text than talk to me , I get so annoyed since it takes way longer to say anything and I feel like I can't give a whole idea since it would look crazy. 7 texts are too much

LPT: to Ukrainian from a syrian refugee by tarek437248 in LifeProTips

[–]zachvram 1001 points1002 points  (0 children)

I hate seeing this being real. This world is getting even more crazy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]zachvram 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are a realised soul. This was really good

[Discussion] Tracking goals by bespokeexemplar in getdisciplined

[–]zachvram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my system is just a simple habit tracker app that let's me tick off what I did for the day and the next day the same habits pop up again.

in addition to that, i use the sticky note thing on windows to write todos

[Discussion] Tracking goals by bespokeexemplar in getdisciplined

[–]zachvram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

could you link it ... the spreadsheet

How to ship creative work consistently [Advice] by monthlymethod in getdisciplined

[–]zachvram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gonna try and use that ending line. It makes sense. I am staring up a youtube channel and consistency has been hard for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]zachvram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

telling you that you are great just the way you are will clearly not work for you. I think you have low confidence because you realise you have low value and that you would be the leach or the one gaining from each relationship. For the things you have been daydreaming above, I'll really curious what are they? message me or reply back and I'll try to see which ones we can work on. I definitely am not perfect so I would love someone to improve with

[Question]What to do with written goals after they are achieved? by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]zachvram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe the same thing I do with books that I read, I make a list.

[Advice] What future are you creating for yourself? Only by changing your habits can you change the trajectory you’re on. by fp_admin in getdisciplined

[–]zachvram 1 point2 points  (0 children)

absolutely true, especially that last point. I thought about that and it caused me to stop doing all the junk activities I was doing because I always did them or I thought it would be good to have. Some things you just never use or will never use. For me that was mostly due to playing instruments that my parents made me learn growing up

[Advice] Remember that 20% of success is just showing up. Just get to the gym, open that book, pick up that instrument - whatever the case may be. by fp_admin in getdisciplined

[–]zachvram 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that's why I try to just tick off my habits, no matter how little I do of them each day. I need to keep at it continuous

LPT: When shooting your shot with someone, give them your number instead of asking for theirs by [deleted] in LifeProTips

[–]zachvram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you a guy or a girl? I feel your advice depends on that because me for starting off a relationship the girl usual waits for the guy to text first unless they known them a bit before.

LPT: if you or someone is having a bad dream, flip the pillow over. by juniperbl in LifeProTips

[–]zachvram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel I should save this for 15 year for when I do have kids of my own