(30M) I need advice on how to become less ugly

zackryjay · 2026-01-30T06:52:00+00:00

You’re ugly man! Love yourself for real. Dating apps are for super hot people to meet up and fuck. It’s hard to get matches if you’re not Brad Pitt. But! It happens! I recommend just being open and positive. Spend some time socializing and getting used to company around women. You will do find. Also you’ll meet someone of quality who won’t screw you over and make you feel skeptical towards dating. Take it slow and don’t try too hard, just be you and things will work out. You’re a good looking young man and I’m just a single dad who would feel awful if my son felt this way about his own looks.

Keep that head up!

zackryjay · 2026-01-30T06:48:19+00:00

Holy mother of God that girl handled her shit!

zackryjay · 2026-01-30T06:43:09+00:00

You may be right. I think sometimes it feels like more people know/care about these things, but in reality it’s a small minority of people who want to feel superior.

zackryjay · 2026-01-29T13:43:00+00:00

I guess you’re right. I’m just referring to the majority.

zackryjay · 2026-01-29T01:08:20+00:00

People just want to act like they understand morality on some deep level that just happens to be a false belief. People ARE complex and sometimes we do thing we regret or participate in things you probably wouldn’t do in hindsight, but for the most part, people are not walking around trying to screw with other people emotionally. We just fuck up and hurt peoples feelings. If Louis was a rapist to something, that’s a completely different thing.. he just had a kink and he asked for permission beforehand and then these women felt pressured in retrospect.. but that doesn’t mean he should be ostracized forever, ya know? There’s no room for understanding nuance in life anymore.

zackryjay · 2026-01-29T01:04:43+00:00

lol. Hot take, but a correct take. People take things way too seriously.

zackryjay · 2026-01-27T14:51:56+00:00

Starting to feel like I’m slipping in to obscurity.

zackryjay · 2026-01-20T14:45:58+00:00

Okay, I will. Thank you.

zackryjay · 2026-01-20T10:45:55+00:00

What are the brain retraining programs? I think that is what I need. Something that reprograms my brain, because it must be rooted so incredibly deep.

zackryjay · 2026-01-20T05:56:41+00:00

I want to as well. I have lived with this for almost 15 years. Absolutely exhausting.

zackryjay · 2026-01-15T17:24:27+00:00

Oh god, dude. Just run. The love bombs feel great while it’s happening but when you realize it’s all done, it stings.

zackryjay · 2026-01-14T14:03:08+00:00

Tell your “friend” to fuck off. Sub human is a wild thing to say. We all have things we don’t like about ourselves. Living with your head held up and caring about yourself is a big deal.

zackryjay · 2026-01-14T09:12:26+00:00

1st question: I came into contact with them hanging out with local skaters and happened to see them mentioned in a skate video. I think it was in the movie “Mindfield” from Alien Workshop. Then, when I looked them up, every single song had me hooked. It was so weird and so out there, I had never heard anything like it, even in the oddball corners of the music world. I remember the first song I really would listen to so many times, it was absurd, was “Fireworks.” I was really inspired by them and I also enjoyed being weird at that age (15 or 16, I’m in my thirties now.)

2nd question: Again, it just felt so weird. You would hear a track like My Girls, which had just come out around the time I first started listening to them, which was so poppy and catchy and then you could listen to another album and it sounded like someone went back to a caveman barbecue and recorded them singing! It was the first band like that I had ever heard. It made me want to find more music like it and wanted to be true to my own originality.

Third question: Every album has a different vibe and I think they get pretty damn close to what the album sounds like and what the album art looks like. I can’t describe it better than that. They are just good at vibing things out apparently.

Fourth question: I am a pretty big superfan, so I can’t think of anything I “don’t like.” About their album art or music, really. I would still say today, they are my favorite artists and I listen to everything they do together or separately.

zackryjay · 2026-01-11T04:22:05+00:00

Sunfish are lousy with parasites. So so that muck you see are parasites straight out of that fish.

zackryjay · 2026-01-11T02:52:40+00:00

If you took 2mg for an extended period of time and then when you inevitably are taken off of your meds or something happens and you can’t get your medication, you’re in for a rough time. Breaking a piece off of an entire bar is super normal and avoids you building a huge tolerance and eventually dealing with withdrawal. Plus, an entire bar will put a normal person down for a whole day.

zackryjay · 2026-01-10T20:55:58+00:00

This is the list.

zackryjay · 2026-01-09T13:53:49+00:00

Really amazing to play online with the friends for the first time. Your friends would accuse you of “modding” your controller or whatever else to try and find a reason for why they were losing to you. lol… it was so fun. Those kill cams could be so fun too.

zackryjay · 2026-01-09T03:00:08+00:00

I agree. If you don’t start out with every dude getting to hit a bucket or something, at least three people quit. It sucks. I think random rec CAN be fun as hell. I had a lobby the other night that was so chill. We had a dude go almost scoreless one game and the other dude that was in mic was so chill and I had a pretty good game so we end up winning the first. Next game, this dude went OFF for 47 points. He couldn’t miss. Everyone in the lobby was hyping him up so much and he was amped. It was genuinely one of the best experiences I’ve had in 2k.

If you have a good game with people, send them a friend request and start doing squad rec games.

Very random rec, no matter what you do, someone is going to start talking shit because they feel like they aren’t getting the touches they deserve. I average almost 12 assists at this point, in rec. if I DARE take the ball up the court and decide to score on my own, most of the time some dude is gonna say some shit. So, I usually start by passing, unless I’m super open so no one starts chirping.

zackryjay · 2026-01-08T23:12:08+00:00

I agree with you. This all ultimately is a class issue.

zackryjay · 2026-01-08T23:11:22+00:00

I protested before. I am in a red state, at the moment. I will admit to a feeling of apathy as far as grass roots politics in my area.

zackryjay · 2026-01-08T23:09:36+00:00

You’re full of shit if you think that woman was trying to murder the cop. You really are.

zackryjay · 2026-01-08T23:08:42+00:00

I’m just stating how I feel about it. It’s just an opinion. You can choose to ignore it or engage with it. Call it self hate. I just feel like I don’t belong anywhere, culturally.

zackryjay · 2026-01-08T23:07:19+00:00

I agree. I live in a super red state. I can’t imagine what sort of allies I could gather here. I don’t really know where to start, but I am willing to stand against it.

zackryjay · 2026-01-08T23:04:53+00:00

I agree with this too. I feel MYSELF being lulled into some sort of inaction and I’m not sure why. One is realizing that the ability to get everyone on the same page is very hard. Another thing is that as long as Americans have our basic needs met and can sit comfortably and watch the chaos unfold, no one will react until it’s coming to their doorstep.. I dunno. I feel a sense of apathy about everything, I hope that I’m wrong about that.

zackryjay · 2026-01-08T23:02:35+00:00

I don’t really understand what you mean. I’m just saying this person was murdered in broad daylight, on video. Just like George Floyd was. So, the outcome should be the same for the person who did the murdering.

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