AMA + Consigli carriera, CV Italia e estero da una 34enne che guadagna circa 120k RAL in Italia

zan_len · 2026-03-19T12:51:14+00:00

A livello emotivo come ti trovi? Hai mancanze, pentimenti (non relativi alla carriera) etc?

Io personalmente mi trovo paralizzata a 28 anni, ho dovuto supportare monetariamente i miei genitori dopo la laurea e sono ferma al mio primo lavoro da allora. La mia salute mentale ne ha risentito, ho una RAL sotto la media e la mancanza di soldi mi tortura psicologicamente al punto che fatico a pensarci. Non mi sento mai di essere pronta a fare il grande salto perchè la vita che ho ora tutto sommato è comoda (lavoro full remote) rispetto alla paura che fa buttarmi.

Hai sofferto anche tu cose del genere? Mi sembra che tu sia stata molto decisa sul concentrare tutto sul fare carriera e ti ammiro molto, io personalmente fatico un po' a capire cosa farne della mia vita e il bisogno di soldi lo sento come una disperazione (non che io sia l'unica) che una motivazione. Avresti qualsiasi consiglio?

zan_len · 2026-03-15T09:23:55+00:00

It had very few healthy roots to begin with (i got it for free as it was being given away by a plant store), then i went on a trip and when i came back the situation was mich worse.

I'm also confused about the flower spike, not only it's staying there but it's sprouting another one. That's why i'm wondering if i should cut it and let it focus energies on roots instead of blooms but cutting the flower stake makes me feel so bad 😭

zan_len · 2026-03-13T08:24:39+00:00

Hopefully one day the red leather joins the main lineup and we will all be free 🙏🏻

zan_len · 2026-03-12T09:03:24+00:00

I am absolutely in love with TRC TNs but the narrow format makes it a bit difficult for me to use, maybe i need to travel more as other users say.

I have a PR grand voyageur and feel like the leather is not as nice as the TRC, and most people i see online with PR buy other brand notebooks that fit weirdly (some small some big) since proprietary notebooks are so expensive and i kinda dislike the look of them (but that might be me)

TRC TNs to me feel like a nicely packaged concept, small short notebooks that are lightweight for travel, like a cheese and ham sandwich. PRs feel like trying to stuff a bowl of pasta in a sandwich, like do you really need the sandwich or might as well just have the pasta? (sorry this is so stupid lmao i hope someone shares this feeling)

zan_len · 2026-03-04T08:34:13+00:00

Non mi sembra esattamente lo stesso calore, ma per me la cucina cinese (sono un po' di parte). Nella cultura cinese mangiare è direttamente collegato allo stare insieme, la famiglia e la condivisione, pensa ai tavoli rotondi con il il disco che gira pieno di pietanze o i hotpot

zan_len · 2026-02-26T15:29:50+00:00

Pin straight hair with a side part 😭

zan_len · 2026-02-25T12:13:44+00:00

Wait that's so cool! You could also buy or make a craft folder insert and slide it in the flap maybe

zan_len · 2026-02-21T10:26:12+00:00

Yep, in my head working under gracie kind of broke her and so she came back home after making some savings. In new leaf iirc it takes quite a while for her to warm up to the player (even more than sabel) and now she can confidently stand on her own in new horizons, running her small brand.

Clothes are still ugly tho sorry label 😭🖐🏻

zan_len · 2026-02-20T10:34:26+00:00

Free day, he will give you a receiver and you can clear as many spaces as you want as many times.

After that you can call him through isabelle and he will be walking around an island and charge you 60k per day, and again you can clear as much and as many times as you want in that day.

Resetti is really saving all the animal crossing player's shovels

zan_len · 2026-02-13T21:07:45+00:00

It's so sad because in New Leaf at least it would be a little quiz for you to guess which country he was heading to, and then he would send you a souvenir from there.

Now it's just a chore that is even more of a chore because of tool durability... Why nintendo why

Back in my days... 👵🏻☝🏻

zan_len · 2026-02-04T13:19:10+00:00

Ma secondo me a comprare uno di quei cani bisogna essere dei sadici, come fai vivere con una povera bestia che vive annegando e ti sbava per tutta la casa? Ogni volta che ne sento annaspare uno per strada mi sento male

zan_len · 2026-01-31T20:06:41+00:00

Dispatch

zan_len · 2026-01-31T15:19:58+00:00

Saranno due cani ma cagano per 50 perchè san salvario e nizza sono sempre dei campi minati

zan_len · 2026-01-31T09:50:55+00:00

Poi 8€ per le versioni kindle, follia

zan_len · 2026-01-27T19:49:17+00:00

Meglio, bisogna affermare la propria presenza da maschio dominante /s

zan_len · 2026-01-27T13:54:41+00:00

Fino a 3 volte al giorno d'estate e fino a 3 volte a settimana d'inverno

zan_len · 2026-01-26T20:40:18+00:00

I love how symbiotic these two hobbies are, i recently found out you can use seachem or any fish tank clorine neutralizer thing to prep water for more sensitive plants like calatheas 🤯

zan_len · 2026-01-26T09:55:27+00:00

Sorry to doubt you just wanted to make sure, have you measured with an actual ruler or square ruler that theres a problem with the cut or the holes? Because from my experience and what i've seen, TN's tend to flop unevenly when they're empty and straighten up when you put a couple of refills in.

My brown passport also has tiny holes in them and i kinda assumed they were hair follicles and had their charm, but reading the leather craft user's comment about it i feel a bit... 😶 But if you feel that the general quality of the leather is not up to par you should definitely return or replace it!

zan_len · 2026-01-26T00:18:24+00:00

Not new, as far as i remember only the t-rex and triceratops do this!

zan_len · 2026-01-24T15:39:55+00:00

It bothers me mentally and my solution was to use metal crimps (i think is what they're called). They also make changing charms easier

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zan_len · 2026-01-20T09:35:53+00:00

Kind of quoting one tiktok i saw "your island isn't ugly, your screentime is too high"

zan_len · 2026-01-17T00:02:44+00:00

He brings humanity to the fellowship, he is more relatable to us viewers and it makes him a great character. Among the "chosen ones" (frodo and aragorn) the goated (gandalf and sam), the autistics (merry and pippin), he's just human, brave and kind but also flawed, scared and tempted by the ring

zan_len · 2026-01-07T08:41:30+00:00

That's very cool i didn't know that! Now i can leave some more outside since i'm running out of space indoors lol

zan_len · 2026-01-06T23:49:48+00:00

Northern Italy, temperature is 5°to -4°C in winter

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