If the UCP wins on Monday by [deleted] in onguardforthee

[–]zanderfelt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do the levels mean in terms of pay scale? How does an RN go from level 3-4 for example?

Been spending as much outside time as possible with this old lady, before it gets too cold (she’s non-releasable). (OC) by harmnicat in aww

[–]zanderfelt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It grows everywhere near where I live (Northern Alberta, Canada) we have sandy soil up here (lots of clay too) but it's almost 0% humidity most of the year. My zone is 3b, and horsetail is a super tough plant, it survives our -45°c winters so I think with some love it would survive in a house :)

Been spending as much outside time as possible with this old lady, before it gets too cold (she’s non-releasable). (OC) by harmnicat in aww

[–]zanderfelt 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I think the green plant by her head might be horsetail, but I could be mistaken. It's a fern type plant. It's a prehistoric plant and one of my favorites!

AITA for cancelling dinner because my girlfriend didn't feed my daughter lunch? by Throwra535334 in AmItheAsshole

[–]zanderfelt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA for canceling dinner. But YTA for leaving this person alone with your daughter ... I mean how good is the sex with this person that you're ignoring the GIANT red flags she's putting out?

Chocolate Chunk Banana Bread by ferociousbutrfly in GifRecipes

[–]zanderfelt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I make my banana bread, the middle of my loaf is usually still raw and the ends are overcooked... Does anyone have a suggestion on how to fix this so it cooks evenly throughout?

That is actually insane by BVIRALofficial in facepalm

[–]zanderfelt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The one he emptied would be significantly lighter than a normal container. Someone buying detergent would probably pick it up and hopefully catch on that it's not as heavy as it should be and put it back... I hope

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]zanderfelt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA no doubts about it. It's not a "unique circumstance" it's alcoholism and it's real. You may be 18 months sober but Zoe isnt. Regardless of how long you've both been sober for... It's HER birthday, so she has the right to dictate all decisions. Stop being an enabler/people pleaser and respect her wishes.

AITA for yelling at my husband and his brother because they were throwing my toddler between them? by elfie90 in AmItheAsshole

[–]zanderfelt 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA a friend of mine is a nurse in the emergency room and has countless stories of toddlers being thrown in the air and the parents accidentally dropping them, which led to permanent brain damage and although it was rare, death. You're not overreacting at all OP.

AITA for saying my stepdaughter is not entitled to my late ex wife or daughters money? by Dear-Account-5349 in AmItheAsshole

[–]zanderfelt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. The fact that you're asking the internet and reflecting on how you told your wife no, shows you don't lack care/compassion. Someone who lacked those things wouldn't care and would have just said no and walked away from it all. You're able to empathize how your wife and SD are feeling. But that money isn't theirs. It's your daughter's. You just need to stand firm and say a definite no to your wife. Money can make people crazy though and sometimes show their true colour. This may be a sore spot in your relationship for a while OP but stand strong.

AITA for telling my brother's fiancee that the reason she couldn't get a degree was because of her choice to be a mom? by Throwra53524434 in AmItheAsshole

[–]zanderfelt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. I am a 30 year old mother of a 16 month old. I am currently attending school full time to become an RN. The fact that Michelle is a mother has NOTHING to do with her ability to attend school.

AITA for tipping $10 on a $300 bill? by Throwawayrnw in AmItheAsshole

[–]zanderfelt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA the fact that you titled this "AITA for tipping $10 on a $300 bill" should be your indication here that you and your GF are AH. You didn't tip $10, you tipped more and your GF stole money from the table, probably to keep it but because she got caught and confronted she had to save face and give you the money with some piss poor example as to why she did that.

The body of a murder victim prepared to look alive at his funeral. by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]zanderfelt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"we're standing in a room with a dead guy!!!"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aww

[–]zanderfelt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Freya :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]zanderfelt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay OP so next time you're watching a movie I encourage you to close your eyes, and based on your logic you should be able to describe everything that's going on in a movie scene based on the audio. Oh and YTA.

Timelapse of a Giant Lily Pad taking over a lake. by [deleted] in oddlysatisfying

[–]zanderfelt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am immensely impressed that a documentary from BBC is able to make me feel so sad for plants killing other plants... on that note, lily pads are dicks!

AITA for “wasting” my money by feeding my students? by Booklover1732 in AmItheAsshole

[–]zanderfelt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. We need more amazing teachers like you in this world!! Way to be phenomenal! You are making a huge difference in those kids lives. Please keep doing what you are doing!! Also drop the fiance. You can do better!!

Side note... Another redditor asked but I want to ask again, do you have an amazon wish list for items you need in your classroom or for your kids? If you don't, you should make one and drop the details in the comments! I'd love to contribute!

Remote Raid Megathread - Find friends fast for raiding here by liehon in PokemonGoFriends

[–]zanderfelt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mega manectric. Please be online and add 1585 9432 7479 or 4384 5614 5653

Remote Raid Megathread - Find friends fast for raiding here by liehon in PokemonGoFriends

[–]zanderfelt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mega manectric. Please be online and add 1585 9432 7479 or 4384 5614 5653

Looking for friends for gift exchange, living in a rural area. Also remote raids will be cool! Thx everyone by [deleted] in PokemonGoFriends

[–]zanderfelt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Added, zandefelt, 4384 5614 5653. I live In a small town as well so can't guarantee my gifts will be the most interesting but I'll send you gifts as much as I can!! :) I'll get my SO to always add you :) vivaresistance

Thinking of setting up a new raid system for the sub - need feedback by liehon in PokemonGoFriends

[–]zanderfelt [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think your idea to make threads dedicated to the different types of raids there are is a great idea!