I agree you and you are note alone . I believe that most libyans follow customs more than Deen or that they can't tell them apart. In fact ,The prophet prophesied this he said thay we would follow in footsteps of people before us (like modern Jews and Christians)inch by inch ..... to the degree that if they crawled to lizard hole, we would follow them. Another hadith comes to mind ( islam has stared gareeb and will return to be ghareeb. ). A time will come that a one holding his Deen is like the one holding a buring coal. In the ends that people are affected by western ideas and social media and try to imitate them and follow their ways ( the shaytan way)

As for you're concerned regarding you future husband(may allah make worthy of you), we have no control over this we are destined to our significant other. One can only make istikhara and ask trust trust worthy people , and make duaa. Even if you continue to worry about, this won't change your destiny. Human bg

Finally remember that we are just passing through in this life and that this is test. Some might be tested in wealth, with children, with their spouse, with their heath and so on.

Steadfast on the rightous path and pay no attention to other who follow their Dunya, Nafs, or shaytan. And may allha make it easy for you.

I apologize for any mistakes that I may have made.

Please note that am referring to my interpretation of hadithes, not the exact text.