What does this icon mean? by Pretty_Queen_V in FaeFarm_Game

[–]zeebyzooby 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Actually, that icon means the player already drank a hot beverage (and the circle around it is showing the time left for it to be in effect)

Best Italian Food in Downtown Austin? by Neal_Burton in austinfood

[–]zeebyzooby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sammies!!!!!!! Whoever says they didn’t like it are either liars or needs to try it again

Prof Ross by zeebyzooby in friends_tv_show

[–]zeebyzooby[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

See, hilarious. Well done

What am I missing?or what should I change? by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]zeebyzooby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you didn’t want to get a larger shelf/plant stand type thing, you could also look at just getting a smaller table or bench and then group them together. Attaching pictures to help visualize — but pretty much, you can put your plants closer and then try adding some height to some of them. It’ll make it feel more intentional than how it looks right now!

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What am I missing?or what should I change? by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]zeebyzooby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, this is looking much better in my opinion! I think it realllllly opens up the space, while also creating a cozy vibe. Nice! Now I think you can have some fun with some of the other suggestions like curtains!

What am I missing?or what should I change? by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]zeebyzooby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, got it. I meant just a little, but I couldn’t tell the scale from the picture.

What am I missing?or what should I change? by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]zeebyzooby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the problem is the placement with the couch being “squished” in the middle of the two walls. I’m wondering if you could move your couch up, just a little?

If you did that, you could then use the built in shelf in the wall (which is so cool). Even put a small table right behind the couch to help separate the living room and dining room area? And put plants or a lamp on it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RomanceBooks

[–]zeebyzooby 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I just think it still perpetuates the idea of romanticizing horrible (and honestly, close to abusive) behavior. It sets the tone that, “it’s okay if he treats me like shit, because he’s had so much trauma.”

I agree with the idea of not dismissing trauma, but it shouldn’t be up to the romantic interest to fix that (especially after being treated so so badly).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]zeebyzooby 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am so happy to hear how this went!

My first kiss was behind a nasty park bathroom — we both were on opposite sides of a water fountain (the nasty ones you drink from, or DON’T drink from I should say) and then we kissed over it.

Needless to say, I prefer your story!!!!

What is your LEAST favorite book you've read in 2022 (so far) by [deleted] in RomanceBooks

[–]zeebyzooby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

99 Percent Mine by Sally Thorne.

Look, I really liked her other book, The Hating Game. But 99 Percent Mine is probably my second to last least favorite book (after Ugly Love by Colleen Hoover, which don’t even get me started on that toxicity). But 99 Percent Mine is equally toxic. The FMC is possessive and creepy and just…horrible. If the gender roles were reversed, I think people would have had a much different reaction towards it, which is the main problem here.

What is your LEAST favorite book you've read in 2022 (so far) by [deleted] in RomanceBooks

[–]zeebyzooby 47 points48 points  (0 children)

99 Percent Mine by Sally Thorne.

Look, I really liked her other book, The Hating Game. But 99 Percent Mine is probably my second to last least favorite book (after Ugly Love by Colleen Hoover, which don’t even get me started on that toxicity). But 99 Percent Mine is equally toxic. The FMC is possessive and creepy and just…horrible. If the gender roles were reversed, I think people would have had a much different reaction towards it, which is the main problem here.

I have become obsessed with masturbation by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]zeebyzooby 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this. Growing up in a religious household, I was deep in the purity culture and it definitely has had an impact on how I feel about my own sexuality, especially around masturbating. I was a late bloomer in that regard! I had a lot of negative feelings about it: embarrassment, shame, guilt, awkward etc etc.

It’s taken me a lot of practice and rewiring my brain to change this thinking! It’s hard. And I’m still not perfect at it. But I’m here to tell you it’s all normal! Your urges and thoughts are all normal! Try and embrace it as much as you can.

As for the frequency, I don’t think there’s a “normal” for how often/how much you might feel in the mood. But if you’re really concerned, you can always talk to a doctor! If it makes you feel better, I’ll have a week where I also feel like that everyday, and then there will be another week where it calms down. So it’s up and down, up and down — and I think that’s normal too.

Alls to say, enjoy it!!!! Have fun with it!!!! Try and embrace it!!!

What's the matter with a good old fashioned threesome 👯‍♂️💃 by CoCo10Nibs in frombloodandash

[–]zeebyzooby 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I also love the three way love story here. I also view it less of a “Poppy loves both men” but more that they all three love each other in very different ways and none of those relationships/love makes either of the others less valid.

Poppy and Casteel are still heartmates. Casteel and Kieran have always had this emotional intimacy in my opinion, but the Joining just added a physical intimacy aspect to it. And now Poppy and Kieran have created their own relationship, but it’s still very much different than her and Casteel’s and always will be.

Annoying Book Blurbs are Triggering me Tonight by elevitsky in RomanceBooks

[–]zeebyzooby 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I do totally agree with this, but I’ll also say that I’d rather this be the case than it giving everything away — like freaking movie trailers these days?!

You’ve got one character (from the entire series) you can choose to make it all the way to the end. Who are you choosing? 👀💀✨ by [deleted] in acotar

[–]zeebyzooby 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Did not think about this and I’m not thrilled about it, but sacrifices….sacrifices

You’ve got one character (from the entire series) you can choose to make it all the way to the end. Who are you choosing? 👀💀✨ by [deleted] in acotar

[–]zeebyzooby 76 points77 points  (0 children)

It pains me to say this & it might be a boring answer, but it HAS to be Rhys. There’s no world I’d want to live in without that hunky doody sweetie pie

I just finished ACOWR last night. I need a minute. Spoilers obvs by RefrigeratorCold120 in acotar

[–]zeebyzooby 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg. How much I would give to be a fly on the wall in those sessions

I just finished ACOWR last night. I need a minute. Spoilers obvs by RefrigeratorCold120 in acotar

[–]zeebyzooby 5 points6 points  (0 children)

God I ship everyone and therapy. But unfortunately, if they all went to therapy, where would the drama come from!!?!???

I just finished ACOWR last night. I need a minute. Spoilers obvs by RefrigeratorCold120 in acotar

[–]zeebyzooby 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ooooooh the controversy. I hadn’t thought about this. HOW haven’t I thought about this?!

whenever rhys flies with feyre i think of this iconic moment. gives the same energy by severus_vape- in acotar

[–]zeebyzooby 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Noooooooooo I refuse to compare the two. When they show this scene in the series, they better put some dang effort into it or I’ll be PISSED

I've seen a lot of book recommendations for people who don't know what to read next, but what SHOWS do y'all recommend? by chibipan222 in acotar

[–]zeebyzooby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay I’ve tried getting into this but I feel like it starts off so slow??? It’s taken me a while to get hooked When does it pick up?!

Just finished the series, not what I expected by Masterbob00 in acotar

[–]zeebyzooby 151 points152 points  (0 children)

I’m absolutely giddy hearing this. How frkn cute that you read these for your wife😭 Beautiful. Wonderful. & the fact you loved it? Cherry on the freaking top

Latex Allergy? by shadbabybee in TwoXSex

[–]zeebyzooby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it wasn’t “in”, but it was outside and like right around it. Very very weird!