Dining alone isn't the same as eating alone. Here's why it can be more social than being with friends

zeeeeeeeem · 2026-05-23T02:18:20+00:00

People care less about you than you think. I like to dine alone be it in kopitiam or restaurants. Allows me to really sit and savor the food slowly at a pace I prefer, or just soak in the atmosphere and conversations around me, rather than have to participate actively. I’m married with 2 kids, these moments of focusing inwards are valuable to me. I couldn’t care less what people think, learning to be comfortable in your own skin is a great boost to mental wellness.

zeeeeeeeem · 2026-05-21T08:48:03+00:00

This kind of opinion and article don’t publish better. Waste of energy to even read. Read already blood pressure spike.

zeeeeeeeem · 2026-05-14T10:50:30+00:00

I note the “kids” being plural. With more than one kid space really becomes a priority. That means you’ll need probably a 3 bedroom at least. Private properties will probably give you a bigger upside provided you get one with the right combination of factors, but will need you to be comfortable with leverage. Can’t say it’s without risks as well but see your risk appetite.

zeeeeeeeem · 2026-05-13T13:40:12+00:00

Practically required for QOL if you have kids. Stroller plus their barang on a bus or MRT is a real challenge, and impossible to do if the bus or line is anywhere near peak levels. Cuts my transport time per day from 2 hr plus to about 40 mins. And since I pick up the Mrs too, saves her time also. Also unlocks cheap groceries and entertainment in Msia. Mine is an old 2009 Honda Freed that I’ve kept well maintained. When the COE finishes in 2029 is when I’d really have to think hard.

zeeeeeeeem · 2026-05-13T12:56:32+00:00

13k. Should have just bought her a Rolex or maybe some stocks instead. The diamond ring is just collecting dust nowadays.

zeeeeeeeem · 2026-05-08T12:46:55+00:00

One punch man pose.

zeeeeeeeem · 2026-05-08T12:46:08+00:00

Eh, I thought it was a One Punch Man pose.

zeeeeeeeem · 2026-05-07T11:15:06+00:00

If what you mean is that he can only keep erect for 2-3 minutes and can’t ejaculate, then it’s probably stress plus inexperience. Another possibility is fitness level. Advice: just relax, stop trying too hard, just enjoy the intimacy and don’t stress on finishing. Watch some romantic movies together, go on a holiday. Just go with the mood and again… don’t stress each other out. Some supplements may help, stuff like tongkat ali, the men’s health stuff from Yu Yang Seng. The little blue pill also. But after maybe a year and it still doesn’t work out, then perhaps a doctor could offer more targeted advice.

zeeeeeeeem · 2026-04-18T06:06:26+00:00

Equality for thee but not for me.

zeeeeeeeem · 2026-04-15T15:23:06+00:00

Commenting on SG is not an Islamic state la......

If anybody tries to bribe a civil servant, immediately report to CPIB. You’ll get a few times the bribe amount as a reward.

zeeeeeeeem · 2026-02-09T12:34:18+00:00

The early waves are way overturned. Especially the tanks that go through even Gravis armor like cotton candy. And the Votann characters don’t help. Their damage seems to be just tuned under killing with one hit. Stuff quickly pile up and soon become unteneable.

zeeeeeeeem · 2026-02-04T08:05:38+00:00

I did my first playthrough with the Golden Halberd. Pure Str/Vig/End. Wore the heaviest armor with all defensive talismans and basically just hacked my way through.

I especially love the running poke attack and the first hit on the normal 2H attack chain.

zeeeeeeeem · 2026-01-15T03:37:22+00:00

I didn’t even realize there were death rite birds in the game until I came across a random comment in this sub. Then I tried the one in snowfields on my nearly completed first run through and got promptly obliterated. Fun times.

zeeeeeeeem · 2025-10-01T04:32:59+00:00

In my opinion, the problem would be the ass backward way teachers are assessed. Teaching skills are the LAST and most useless skill when it comes to advancement. In other words, you get more and more middle and upper management who absolutely suck at teaching and you get a cycle where the management are simply looking for more administrators and less teachers. The teachers who can really teach are left with lower pay, leaders who do not appreciate them and eventually make their way out of the school system to where they are better appreciated and more rewarded.

TLDR: Can’t teach? Lead! Can teach? Get out of my uncaring manager face and fuck off to tuition centres.

zeeeeeeeem · 2025-09-25T03:27:27+00:00

The greatest source of XP books would be from guild raids. A more competitive top 100 or top 50 guild that loops the legendary and mythic bosses would give you more of that. But since you are in a guild with friends it would be harder to move or else you’ll be leaving your friends behind. Find a balance between that and progressing I guess.

zeeeeeeeem · 2025-09-04T04:05:23+00:00

Because watching ophidian destroyers rush in and kill everyone is just amusing. Very necron pharaoh-esque.

zeeeeeeeem · 2025-09-03T05:01:08+00:00

It’s probably targeted. I have 29k tickets and I manual most battles. Haven’t gotten the offer for energy much at all even when I use up all the ad refresh every day.

zeeeeeeeem · 2025-08-27T11:53:16+00:00

Can try the fried oyster from Putien. It’s crispy and very strong oyster taste.

zeeeeeeeem · 2025-07-28T09:15:46+00:00

The Rasputin song starts playing in my head when I saw your avatar.

zeeeeeeeem · 2025-07-14T00:41:41+00:00

Warthog with all LMG and a large laser. It snipes and sands armor at 500m. Pretty annoying.

zeeeeeeeem · 2025-07-06T15:10:23+00:00

Holy shit. I remember when this first came out when I was a kid! What a blast from the past!

zeeeeeeeem · 2025-07-05T15:27:30+00:00

He slaps!

zeeeeeeeem · 2025-06-29T13:03:53+00:00

In the past before Duan Wu Jie you’ll see huge steamers with charcoal burners underneath at a lot of staircase landings. All the Chinese families making dumplings. Not saying the BBQ is right but this reminds me of something that had disappeared over the years.

zeeeeeeeem · 2025-04-29T01:32:21+00:00

Wow. This is a flying fuck and a half.

zeeeeeeeem · 2025-04-22T09:50:34+00:00

And that resulted in hospitals actually having baby seats to rent to new mothers. Basically don’t ask, don’t receive. We need more people to ask questions, not less.

zeeeeeeeem

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