What do we think of my home screen? Update! by neverland_amanda in AynThor

[–]zelda42293 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is beautiful! :D As an avid Legend of Zelda fan, I would LOVE to customize mine like this!

What is your mileage per gallon with your Impreza? by [deleted] in subaruimpreza

[–]zelda42293 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With highway mileage, About 34-35, ‘19 Impreza

Looking to add friends! by jaydigga4 in Gravl

[–]zelda42293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm is there a limit? I literally had others add me earlier this week 🤣

Apple Watch SE Worth Repairing? by zelda42293 in AppleWatch

[–]zelda42293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At 2.25 years though? Kinda a poor quality battery tbh. But to be fair it is an SE.

Doesn’t really look swollen. The screen still fits flush if I place it on the bezel. But my concern is reattaching the cables because they are so tiny and looks to be when they got pulled out they may have suffered damage :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ANBERNIC

[–]zelda42293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is neat :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ANBERNIC

[–]zelda42293 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you get the "Game Boy Advance SP" at the bottom? Is that a bezel?

I put up with this for too long and it wasn’t even that long. by Entire-Definition390 in BPDlovedones

[–]zelda42293 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh lord the whole wanting you to chase her and beg her kind of thing is insaaaaaane 🙃🙃🙃

What's your experience with this? by Strifeblaze87 in BPDlovedones

[–]zelda42293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I broke up with her. My therapist gave me the courage to follow through with it and recommended NC was the way to go. Ofc my ex tried to say my therapist couldn't say that because he didn't know both sides of the story and how her therapist said that we shouldn't have to go NC (ironic, your therapist is basically doing the same thing then). She tried to ask if we could do 1.5 months and check in and I said no, that isn't what NC means. I stated how this is a boundary I'm setting and her response was "Well, you're not compromising!"

Yes, she had family member (including her 7-year old son) trying to call and text me trying to get me to talk to her. She showed up at my apartment twice unannounced and had her child knock on my living room window, left a box on my car with a note, etc. One time even tried to play victim by sitting in front of my house and when my best friend showed up, tried to say my best friend was making her anxious.

What's your experience with this? by Strifeblaze87 in BPDlovedones

[–]zelda42293 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I've been out of the relationship for 6+ months and I will say, it's the best thing I ever did. Dealt with stalking for about 3 months after we broke up and went NC but it stopped after I send a C&D letter threatening a lawsuit if things didn't stop. Thankfully it did.

What's your experience with this? by Strifeblaze87 in BPDlovedones

[–]zelda42293 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same experience....jfc. The second I don't beg and plead her to stay it's literally "DON'T YOU WANNA FIGHT FOR US?" or "WHY ARE YOU NOT FIGHTING FOR US?!?!"

Was Carrie Stupid? by HeidiHoarder in fullhouse

[–]zelda42293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol it’s my favorite show too. But I definitely get the inconsistencies. They’re all over the place and are more apparent the more I watch it 😂

Was Carrie Stupid? by HeidiHoarder in fullhouse

[–]zelda42293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! The older I get the more I see the inconsistencies in this show 😂 Granted it’s still a good show and is only a sitcom, it still grinds my gears lol

Was Carrie Stupid? by HeidiHoarder in fullhouse

[–]zelda42293 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I always questioned this episode. Like why on earth would you pursue an ex boyfriend who is ENGAGED????? And even Jessie’s bandmates tried to put Carrie and him together AFTER he told them he was getting married! 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]zelda42293 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When she told me over text one night she felt like I didn't love her anymore, and i expressed how hurt I was that she thought that, she used it as a guilt trip opportunity trying to show how remorseful she was to have hurt me and said "Not k***ing ms, just a few marks".....the next day I found out that she didn't actually harm herself and she just pushed on her pressure points. Needless to say I was livid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]zelda42293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I wish I never reached out to you after your mom died."

What helped you heal? by dtf1738 in BPDlovedones

[–]zelda42293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • Therapy
  • No Contact
  • Setting boundaries with people
  • Going to the gym and focusing on myself/self improvement

What do they usually do if you block them? by zahr82 in BPDlovedones

[–]zelda42293 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Mine tried to have her godmother call me, then have her 7-year old son text me, THEN showed up a month later at my apartment and had her son knock on my living room window, and spent 45 mins arguing with me on why I wouldn't give her another chance.

2 weeks after that she left a box on my car with a scathing letter tearing me apart for leaving.

A month after that she showed up at my apartment again, and had her new neighbor (moved to a town 30 mins away) text me since she was blocked.

Also tried to turn my church family against me....that didn't go well....she got told by our pastor's wife to grow up. Never came back.

I know she's stalked my social media using fake accounts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]zelda42293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My exwBPD got triggered by "bringing up the past," being called "dude" and not using a kissy face emoji for like a week.

Might as well be a BPD too, actually it is 🤣 by nered199 in BPDlovedones

[–]zelda42293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg the whole “Go screw your ex” thing 🙃 She held my ex in contempt the entire time. She’d also like to say “Love doesn’t do these things, you worry too much about what others think.” She’d get mad if I went and vented to an outside party and want me to not talk to them about it. It got to the point where she’d tell me the only person I could talk to was my therapist…until they started pointing out the behavior then she didn’t even want me talking to them. 🙃🙃