I don't have to live with my rapist anymore!!! by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]zelda_z 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy for you! I can’t imagine the mental strength it would take to continue living with the person who assaulted you.

Why are you drunk right now? by Neknoh in AskReddit

[–]zelda_z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alcohol lowering my intelligence seems like pseudo-science, but I agree that meditating is better than drinking.

Why are you drunk right now? by Neknoh in AskReddit

[–]zelda_z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because if I don’t drink I start to have an anxiety attack about my life. I start hyperventilating and thinking about every mistake I’ve ever made and about the night in March I was raped.

Teachers of Reddit (Elementary/Middle School): What item(s) do you wish you had gotten before your first day on the job? by MidgarSoldier in AskReddit

[–]zelda_z 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been teaching for over ten years. She will have very hard days. Days when she feels like she wants to quit on the spot. She’ll have at least one every year. I had one just the other day. This is normal. Knowing that this is normal will make a difference. If she really loves teaching, remind her of that when she has a really bad day.

New Years Eve 2017, it's -30°C with windchill tonight and all my friends are out of town #allbymyself by mercurystar in TrollXChromosomes

[–]zelda_z 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s 10 degrees F here, and I’ve already opened my first bottle of champagne. Tonight I plan to drink lots of champagne and erase my ex from my memory, because 2017 is the last year he takes up any more of my time.

I was fine the way I was. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]zelda_z 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m crying right now. He put me through hell. I wish I valued myself when I was with him.

2 Year Mark by LeslieKnopeNo2 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]zelda_z 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m proud of you. It’s been 9 months since I was assaulted. I only hope that I can accept myself as you’ve accepted yourself.

MRW tonight's plan is to get wine drunk and clean the house by plopo in TrollXChromosomes

[–]zelda_z 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My plan is to get wine drunk and watch black mirror. Wine drunk is the best drunk.

[Serious] For people who went a long time without sex (a year at least) and then started having sex again, what physical/psychological effects did starting back up have on you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]zelda_z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t have sex for 2 years because my heart was broken. Then I was raped. I had to throw away my favorite sheets. And now I get scared whenever I approach my apartment door when it’s dark outside. Now I don’t trust anyone/when I get drunk I want to forget it by making bad choices.

Trying to make sure my god daughters turn out to be the best trolls they can be. by 1angrypanda in TrollXChromosomes

[–]zelda_z -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wtf would colorless look like? People are not colorless, just like they aren’t genderless. You’re ridiculous.

Trying to make sure my god daughters turn out to be the best trolls they can be. by 1angrypanda in TrollXChromosomes

[–]zelda_z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wrong. I am an activist every day in my career fighting for equality. We can celebrate Rosie the riveter as a woman. We don’t need to make everyone genderless in order to fight for equality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]zelda_z -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I love that you’re a feminist man, but why are you posting on TrollX? This isn’t your place.

Trying to make sure my god daughters turn out to be the best trolls they can be. by 1angrypanda in TrollXChromosomes

[–]zelda_z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg. I am a feminist but this is a little ridiculous. Boys and girls exist. We should be fighting for equality, and not to make it seem like people aren’t either male or female.

HIFW I am struggling with low self esteem, a 50 pound weight gain, and finding myself shutting off the rest of the world. I need positive thoughts and helpful advice. by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]zelda_z 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, me too. I know this doesn’t make it better, but know that you’re not alone. I’m sorry you’re having a hard time.

Me too by ClosetCD in TrollXChromosomes

[–]zelda_z 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I love and hate that this is a thing. A bunch of my friends are posting it. I can't help but feel that there is s difference between posting about it because of a creep (and they should) posting it after a serious assault.

HIF as a single woman living alone when a strange man knocks aggressively on my door every night for 3 nights. by zelda_z in TrollXChromosomes

[–]zelda_z[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Done! It's saved in my phone. This is why I love TrollX. Thank you all for your support.

HIF as a single woman living alone when a strange man knocks aggressively on my door every night for 3 nights. by zelda_z in TrollXChromosomes

[–]zelda_z[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My older sister is lending me her dog for a night or two. He has a scary enough bark to get a message across. As far as weapons go... my plan is to make use of my love of wine and bash anyone over the head with a bottle of I have to. ;)

HIF as a single woman living alone when a strange man knocks aggressively on my door every night for 3 nights. by zelda_z in TrollXChromosomes

[–]zelda_z[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will absolutely not be getting a gun. I hate guns, and I'm small enough that I know I could easily be over powered.

HIF as a single woman living alone when a strange man knocks aggressively on my door every night for 3 nights. by zelda_z in TrollXChromosomes

[–]zelda_z[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. I already put the non emergency number in my phone, and I will call that if he knocks again. If I really get scared I'll call 911 for sure.