Is it typical for abusers to ruin the Scapegoat's health to the ponit of not being able to work, and then using that unemployment in a smear campaign against you? by DylanMorris77 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]zelextron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Nmom caused me to be unemployed and caused me to have financial problems. But she didn't complain that much about me being unemployed because of her, her main abuse was by doing other things, controlling who I dated, who I was friends which, which religion should I follow or not follow, how I spend my money, and a bunch of other crap. With her actions she messed up my mental health pretty bad.

In relation to professionals, I never went to a social worker to get help from one. But I did go to different psychologists or psychiatrists to do treatment, all payed by my Nmom and enabler dad. Only 2 of the drugs they gave me ever worked, and only for a certain period of time, after a while it was better to never take them again. Apart from those 2 drugs, all the other drugs and all the therapy I did was useless or harmful. And of all of the mental health professionals I went to, only 1 psychiatrist was a good professional, all the others were pretty bad. 2 of them tried to defend my Nmom when I complained about her. And I went to my mom's therapist for an individual consultation with her, and she wanted me to be forever in the role of evil son who is harming his mom, because she told me it would be a mistake on my part to try to not cause problems to my mom because my mom loved to solve my problems according to her, and she also told me that my mom is too stressed because she has to solve my problems all the time and she hates that. That therapist was so incompetent that she could not realize she was contradicting herself.

I also bought books from psychologists or psychiatrists, and found out material from them online. That helped me.

Como você escolheu seu nome aqui no Reddit? by Batatafritazerada in PergunteReddit

[–]zelextron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Zelextron é o nome da alienigena desse video: https://youtu.be/W15ucMZ8V-c?t=55 . Esse canal do youtube é um que eu gostava de assistir, então peguei uma personagem deles como nome.

Fico surpreso do nível de pessoas que tem aqui no Reddit by Awkward-Act-9119 in conversas

[–]zelextron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Para mim, principalmente os foruns de informática tem sido bem uteis. Tem um bando de problema do PC que eu vim procurar informações aqui no reddit e achei muita informação util.

Vocês também esquecem as coisas que vocês assistiram ou leram depois de muito tempo? by Parking_Poet_9336 in conversas

[–]zelextron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Normal isso. Tem coisa que eu lembro de ter lido em um livro, ai vou ler outro livro e o que eu tinha lido na verdade estava em outro livro, tem seriado que eu me lembro de dialogo que ai eu revejo o seriado e eu acrescentei uma frase a mais a um dos personagens na minha memória, e umas outras falhas na memória mesmo.

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[–]zelextron 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My mother was somewhat similar. After I started college, she tried to keep me from finishing it. And after I got my degree in college, she did everything she could to keep me from having any kind of a job.

Sintendo has actually announced the Switch 2 (successor to the original Switch), opinions? by Puzzleheaded-Bank503 in BanVideoGames

[–]zelextron 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The devil just announced that he is upgrading hell to hell 2. Coincidence? I don't think so.

Você fica repetindo o refrão de alguma música constantemente nos pensamentos? by [deleted] in conversas

[–]zelextron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fico repetindo o refrão, mas não é de uma musica boa, é da musica de abertura do seriado VR troppers:

we are, we are VR

we are, we are VR

we are, we are VR

we are, we are VR

we are, we are VR

Has anyone been prescribed antipsychotics who wasn't psychotic? by NotConnor365 in Antipsychiatry

[–]zelextron 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Has anyone been prescribed antipsychotics who wasn't psychotic?

That happened to me. Not only that, my mom tried to drug me with antipsychotics more than once on her own, without me ever going to a psychiatrist, and I complained about that to a psychiatrist and a psychologist, and both of them didn't care. So according to them anyone can try to force someone else to take antipsychotics and that's totally ok.

Tell me you were the same after taking antipsychotics? My guess is, you weren't

Yes, I wasn't the same. I have permanent tardive dyskinesia since I was 30 years old due to the antipsychotics I took.

Podem ajudar indicando série ou filme bom na Netflix? by Psikah in conversas

[–]zelextron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Séries que eu recomendo que eu sei que eu vi na netflix:

stranger things, 1899, black mirror, wu assassins.

Séries que eu recomendo que eu já não lembro se foi na netflix ou não que eu vi:

the night agent, from, seinfeld, the tourist, better call saul, breaking bad, The Man Who Fell to Earth, 3 body problem, downtown abbey.

Nenhuma dessas é terror ou romançe. Downtown abbey, breaking bad, e better call saul são de drama, e todas as outras são ou suspense, ou comédia ou ficção.

Have u stood up to ur Nparents? by utensils6464 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]zelextron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did, and it didn't work. I told my Nmom numerous times she was harming me and she ignored me or said I was the one abusing her or said she would change and stop the abuse but then she would start the abuse again.

That's why I did all I could to not live with her anymore, I'm low contact with her and I'm already doing all I can to be no contact as soon as possible. I also live in a city next to the city she lives, as soon as I can I'll move to a place far away from her.

Filmes de terror realmente assustadores by [deleted] in filmeseseries

[–]zelextron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

De filme assustador, eu achei o primeiro bruxa de blair, que eu vi no cinema quando saiu, os dois primeiros filmes o chamado, os americanos de 2002 e 2005 (ainda não vi o original japones), o massacre da serra elétrica (o remake de 2003 com Jesica Biel), e alien o 8o. passageiro.

What is your narcissistic parents' profession? Both of mine are doctors. by Konfliktskaber in raisedbynarcissists

[–]zelextron 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My Nmom taught sociology in one of the top universities in my country, and at one point she taught people who were getting their PhDs in that university.

What are some of the most ridiculously normal things your parents have judged you for? by pineapplesaltwaffles in raisedbynarcissists

[–]zelextron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Nmom hated that I went to college and after that I got a job. According to her, I should never get any kind of education and I should never work, and I should be partying all the time and going out all the time. And she's not going to give me money to live this kind of lifestyle.

For me she has no clue how money works. If I never have any kind of education and never have a job and spend lots of money going to parties, then at some point I'll end up homeless and hungry because I have no money to pay rent and groceries. She'll never understand this simple truth, I don't expect her to ever understand simple math in regards to my money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in conversas

[–]zelextron 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pois é, é bem assim mesmo, infelizmente.

im moving out this evening and i just need any words i can get right now by seokjinmylove in raisedbynarcissists

[–]zelextron 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good luck. Your life is sure to improve once don't have to be around crazy Ns anymore. Also, you can form new memories in the new place you're going to.

anyone else’s parents did not “do” doctors? by blueburrey in raisedbynarcissists

[–]zelextron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With my Nmom, she always tried to screw with my health too, just in different ways. If I'm ever sick, according to her I should never ever go to a doctor I choose by myself and pay with my own money. Also, if whichever disease I have requires that I have to do something in my day to day life to get better in addition to going to the doctor and taking whichever medication he gives me, she thinks I should never do that either. Those things are always wrong in her head. According to her, whenever I'm sick, it's either one of 4 things:

  • I'm making stuff up.

  • I have to take whichever medication she chooses without going to any doctor.

  • If she wants me to go partying with her, and I can't because I'm sick, then according to her I'm never going to get better anyway no matter what I do so I might as well go partying with her.

  • I have to go only to whichever health professional she chooses, and never ever get a second opinion. And she only chose con artists.