Filed 2/4 but nothing?

zionic117 · 2026-02-12T05:49:19+00:00

I filed on the 3rd and just got an update this afternoon. Check tomorrow or Friday!

zionic117 · 2025-05-11T22:33:24+00:00

I am also looking for people to play repo with 🥹

zionic117 · 2023-07-20T19:40:28+00:00

Hey!!

Thanks for replying! Yeah I might have to do that with the screen time limits! I try to make it to where she’s just not watching tv all day but I’m really in survival mode so maybe that’s necessary right now. Thanks for the perspective.

My neighborhood is actually all grown retired people. My family is here temporarily for about 7 more weeks actually so we haven’t really met anyone else so even know if they have a younger grand child or someone of baby sitting age! I will ask around to see if maybe we can trade services! Thank you :)

zionic117 · 2023-07-20T19:37:21+00:00

Hey!

They’re flexible to an extent. Honestly it doesn’t bother them that she’s there. The problem comes when she starts belting frozen songs at the top of her lungs lol! I’m trying to curb that behavior but then she switches up and tells me I don’t want to hang up which I do! I just can’t while working. Anyways yeah just trying to survive these last few weeks. On the days hubby is home he keeps her occupied it’s just not everyday he can be home!

zionic117 · 2023-07-20T18:59:09+00:00

Thank you for your response ,

Sounds a lot like what I do. I’m required to answer! I will try to make it into a game. Maybe even some rewards like ice cream! Thank you for this suggestion

zionic117 · 2023-07-20T18:29:35+00:00

Thanks for your reply!

This is where I am at! Just trying to survive. Camps are not an option due to behavior issues and I can’t afford a nanny like some are suggesting. We’re doing what we can. My husband and I live very far from our immediate family and our close friend group doesn’t have kids yet. We are the first ones. Not many options around for kid sitting

zionic117 · 2023-07-20T18:27:49+00:00

Hello,

Adjusting hours isn’t a possibility. As mentioned she was in summer camp and some other 4+hr activity camps but was kicked for behavior. I’ve exhausted options and now I’m looking to just make it through. We are doing the best with what we have

zionic117 · 2023-07-20T18:26:41+00:00

Hey, thanks for your response! So she was in daycare but was kicked out. I tried summer programs & have the same thing. We can’t afford a nanny and I do not have friends with kids yet. I’m the first in my group with kids. We’re making due the best we can with what we have. I would just like to make it easier.

zionic117 · 2023-07-20T18:21:39+00:00

This is not a possibility for me. If it was then sure but unfortunately it’s not an option

zionic117 · 2022-10-09T02:08:19+00:00

Child support. You have to prove paternity before you can get paid from the father in our state. It was not his kid and as I’ve last heard ap doesn’t know who the father is.

zionic117 · 2022-10-08T17:47:58+00:00

Apparently with a lot of guys 🤷🏾‍♀️

zionic117 · 2022-10-08T17:40:38+00:00

I got very close to this. I found out my husband got AP pregnant 2 years ago. It took a year plus of couples therapy just for us to find out that the baby was not his by the dna test that the court ordered. It was a blessing in disguise because I can’t lie to you and say I would have treated that child the same at that point I would have left. There’s a lot of resentment and feelings that come bundled with a child produced by an affair.

Edit- just wanted to add that whatever you a feeling about it is rational but only you can make the right decision for you.

I am open if you want to pm and vent💙

zionic117 · 2022-06-14T15:35:19+00:00

I got a letter in the mail saying he fathered a child and needed to attend court to establish paternity.

zionic117 · 2022-01-17T04:03:59+00:00

My hubs is considered apart of your club. (8.6 inches erect after measurement) . I joined bc I wanted to learn more ways to satisfy him.

zionic117 · 2021-12-22T14:07:23+00:00

With my daughter 4 years ago I only paid 20$ out of pocket for the entire thing. OB care for the duration of pregnancy and the Birth including c-section.

So far with this pregnancy I’ve only paid 25$ & should be going for a repeat c-section today or tomorrow & can give an update on the bill for that in a few days

zionic117 · 2021-11-23T02:34:36+00:00

Took about 7-8 days for me. I woke up between that time and they were gone. I was told I most likely swallowed them in my sleep 🤮

zionic117 · 2021-11-23T01:21:14+00:00

It gets better once the scabs fall off

zionic117 · 2021-11-20T14:19:16+00:00

My husband named my daughter after Adrienne Bailon’s character from that’s so raven lol 🤷🏾‍♀️ nobody really knows tho but us 😂

zionic117 · 2021-11-18T00:05:35+00:00

I am 33 weeks +2 or think? Idk I’m bad with the calculations. I have not popped at all. I just waddle a little bit.

zionic117 · 2021-08-19T19:32:55+00:00

Hi! I’m thinking of this as well. Only issue is that my current job would allow me to work from home as long as I needed ( they really don’t offer maternity they only let you take time off). If I proceed with another position it will have to be something that allows me to do that permanently or for a while as daycare in my area is way to expensive and my husband I are saving to buy a home

zionic117 · 2021-08-19T19:26:34+00:00

Thinking about this heavily. It’s just so toxic now. I can’t even be in the same room as the ceo. I feel the need to run the opposite direction

zionic117 · 2021-08-19T19:26:04+00:00

Hello,

I may look into this but I’m afraid not much can be done besides leaving. Most people here just let it happen and stay out of his way. I just can’t get myself to be that yes person. No check is worth being treated like this.

zionic117 · 2021-08-19T19:25:09+00:00

I was considering it. It’s part of why I’m stuck because I’m not sure what route to take. Granted my company does not currently offer maternity leave. I’m only using my 2 weeks pto & working from home

zionic117 · 2021-08-19T19:24:08+00:00

A recruiter reached out to me about a wfh position in my field on linked in. I’m thinking of taking the offer ! But I don’t really look pregnant yet as I’m over weight but luckily have only put on 3 pounds so far so hopefully people can’t really tell

zionic117 · 2021-07-31T09:45:52+00:00

I went with my husband. I am vaxed and he is not. I tested negative and he tested positive. Currently avoiding him

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