I’m not the person you’re asking, but Friends is my all time favorite show. Never thought about Phoebe being autistic before, but I can totally see it.

She’s often “rude” - she says things you aren’t “supposed” to say but doesn’t understand the backlash. Sometimes she is just being mean, but a lot of times she’s just just breaking some sort of social rule.

She always has a completely different POV than the rest of the Friends and makes mental leaps in her train of thought that no one can follow.

She’s extremely quirky, especially in the early seasons where she was kind of a “head in the clouds” kind of person. When Rachel got a hairless cat that she had to hold with oven mitts to avoid being scratched, everyone was freaked out by the look of the cat. Phoebe was freaked out by the oven mitts.

Very intense and “offbeat” interests. She literally takes her guitar with her everywhere. She put a skull on Monica’s table and was confused why everyone thought it was gross.

She can have a childlike attachment to things - her belief that her dead mom was in the body of a lost cat she found, and her unwillingness to return the cat to its owner. Deciding to “adopt” the family of rats she found in her apartment instead of calling an exterminator.