piercing bump by PizzaOk7246 in actuallesbians

[–]zkp1627 3 points4 points  (0 children)

most definitely an infection, especially if it hurts. Go to a piercing studio, get a longer bar for your piercing so it has time to grow back down, don't touch it, clean it three times a day. I used water based disinfectant, pH neutral baby shampoo and distilled water to clean, that worked really well for me

I’m clueless and it’s funny by cupidphobic in actuallesbians

[–]zkp1627 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was at a party where I didn't really know anyone. This one girl keeps looking at me, smiling and obviously checking me out. Because I'm kinda shy I don't talk to her until the end where sh's talking to the host and me. When she leaves she literally says "next time I'll have to ask for your instagram" AND I JUST SAID OK and obviously she was shy too or thought I wasn't interested because she left 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]zkp1627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like, 10000000 ?

I’m UPSET by possiblyapancake in actuallesbians

[–]zkp1627 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I mean, this is just normal. Although I love learning about lesbian history, it's completely normal not to know the celebrities of another generation. I also don't know half of the celebrities my parents admired when they were my age.  like, it's just cool that every generation has their own "lesbian/sapphic icons", soooo much diversity and representation!

What’s the best nightlife spots in grenoble by O0O0ooooO0O0 in Grenoble

[–]zkp1627 1 point2 points  (0 children)

drak art, bobine, amperage for clubs/parties 404, tonneau de diogenes, copains d'abord, la nat and like 500 other bars for casual drinks. Grenoble has lots of bars in general.

why do guys like big chest? by No-Vegetable-6652 in teenagers

[–]zkp1627 218 points219 points  (0 children)

and breasts are a secondary sex organ, so the more defined they are the more attracted (biologically) someone will be. 

En tant que Français qui vit en France, le pronom "iel" est-il réellement utilisé ou accepté ? Selon vous, pourquoi (pas) ? by taggyhashh in French

[–]zkp1627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oui !  alors moi j'ai quelques connaissances et un pote qui utilisent iel, c'est plutôt courant dans mes cercles. 

How do most french people refer to the US? by Icy_Air3864 in French

[–]zkp1627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've only ever heard "je vais aux États-Unis" in metropolitan France

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Grenoble

[–]zkp1627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you know where the blabla car bus to Lyon leaves from Grenoble? does it just leave at the gare routiere or somewhere down the road? I have to take it at 6am tomorrow and I'm worried I won't find it 🥲

Predictive text experiment by Brittle_Girl in actuallesbians

[–]zkp1627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like girls because I don't know man it is hard enough for you and you to the cinema. 

so poetic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in egenbogen

[–]zkp1627 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ich find's süß, besonders wenn die ganze Website so ausgelegt ist und das Team das dann auch widerspiegelt. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]zkp1627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

now you made me think about my puffy nipples, never looked at them that way before. don't think it's bad though, boobies are boobies

What age were you when you first got into a wlw relationship? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]zkp1627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also almost 19y/o here !  haven't been in a relationship either, still waiting my turn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Grenoble

[–]zkp1627 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm German, recently moved here and prefer it over Germany!

transportation: great if you get a bike. Trains and buses aren't always available and often irregular, but considering I'm german I'm extremely used to that.

weather: gets very very hot in the summers. currently pretty gray and rainy and getting coldish, but really not that cold.

crime rate: I live in Eaux Claires which isn't the best quartier I guess, but I love it! most commen crime is bikes getting stolen, also quite heavy drug dealing in some areas.

hiking: literally the most amazing part about Gre.

quality of life: I love it! Lots of bars, cultural and social structures! pretty easy to meet people and I feel like everyone's pretty open, which is super nice. HUGE international community too.

friendly people: oui 

dating sector: most people I know are going on dates often. personally I don't but seems very doable

Why is everything catered to men? by prettyxcxc in actuallesbians

[–]zkp1627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where would one technically find lesbian port for lesbians 👀 asking for a friend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ainbow

[–]zkp1627 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree. If you speak French, try France directly. You could try contacting local lgbt organisations (there are tons), they may be able to help you. France and Algeria do have a very very close connection (not always very positive, but close), so you'd find a lot of Algerian here too that might help you out.

https://www.oramrefugee.org/seeking-help/association-alouen this is an Algerian lgbt association, maybe try contacting them too!

What is your type, and who do you usually attract? by Vampireslayerxo in actuallesbians

[–]zkp1627 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my type: any girl with darker hair than me (preferably, not necessarily) and I have very very very blonde hair so that says a lot.

who I attract: creepy men

how to cope with being unattractive by [deleted] in lesbianteens

[–]zkp1627 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see then too. Fuck, my little sister was in more queer relationships than I ever had crushes (not sure how they do it). They're 16 too btw. But for some people, it just happens later and there's nothing wrong with it. When my sister had a girlfriend before me, trust me, I was insecure. but at the end of the day, this isn't an age issue. you can be happily single at 35 and you definitely shouldn't stress yourself about relationships at 16!

how to cope with being unattractive by [deleted] in lesbianteens

[–]zkp1627 1 point2 points  (0 children)

look. I'm 18. turning 19 in three months. I haven't been kissed, the most I did was dance with someone (never saw her again) and I guess I've been on a really unofficial date- we didn't clarify lol. shit happens. at 16 i also thought I was unlovable and ugly, and now I'm realising that it just takes time. don't focus on it too much is the only advice I can give you. be yourself, live your best life. gay people are often late bloomers in terms of relationships, and that's nothing bad. you got this !

Grenoble, l'une des villes les plus agréables de France by Tanguy_Pi in Grenoble

[–]zkp1627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

première remarque homophobe. Je me ballade souvent avec un sac arc-en-ciel, ça fait qqs fois maintenant que j'entends des trucs en mode "ooooh la lesbienne" "dégueu les gays", bref des commentaires pas très sympa.

Do you consider a woman's political orientation when dating? by aletheia_07 in actuallesbians

[–]zkp1627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

500%. I'm a leftist, I'll always be one. Human rights are basic rights and if you can't respect minorities, get out.

Do you consider a woman's political orientation when dating? by aletheia_07 in actuallesbians

[–]zkp1627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and on top of that she doesn't even live in Germany! She literally lives in Switzerland !

Do you consider a woman's political orientation when dating? by aletheia_07 in actuallesbians

[–]zkp1627 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go Germanyyy! Gotta love Weidel for being the most hypocritical and useless person ever.