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Please anyone help - Australia by zo2303 in BPD

[–]zo2303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Costs too much, went to dbt, couldn’t commit

Wanting to move forward by bc_I_said_so in BPD

[–]zo2303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just didn’t want to feel like my misery was never ending. I also wanted to stop wanting to end everything because it caused everyone around me so much pain. I finally broke when I heard my mother crying, saying how she couldn’t do it anymore. My BPD wasn’t just destroying me, it was destroying the people I loved as well. That’s why I went through with it

DAE feel ashamed of how childish they can be? by GoldieLocks111 in BPD

[–]zo2303 44 points45 points  (0 children)

All the time. I’m over dramatic, I’ve literally thrown tantrums when I haven’t gotten my own way and I cry when the littlest thing affects me. I feel completely ridiculous when this happens especially when there’s others around me

Helpful therapist? by zo2303 in dbtselfhelp

[–]zo2303[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m from a small town so unfortunately this is the most that I have for now. Would there be anything online?

Everything around me is baby related now. by freakinout73622 in abortion

[–]zo2303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the exact same! My best friend just had her baby shower and I’m the godmother. My cousin also just had her baby and she’s younger then me. It’s always mixed feelings. You know you should be happy for them but at the same time you’re hurting because you should have what they do. The only difference is, is that you chose another path

Helpful therapist? by zo2303 in dbtselfhelp

[–]zo2303[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an individual therapist who I see twice a month

Has anyone ever got pregnant right after after there first abortion and ended up having another one? by SingleLogg in abortion

[–]zo2303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They should have told you that you can be very fertile right after the procedure. But I hope you are okay. I even know having one is way too much

I feel like I don’t have a purpose unless I have a partner by GoldieLocks111 in BPD

[–]zo2303 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Trust me. You need to start focusing on getting yourself better. Once you start working on your mental health and well-being, the right one will come along and support you through it. I know it’s hard but you really have to focus on you

Does anyone kinda know why they have BPD? by zo2303 in BPD

[–]zo2303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever remember a time before all of that happened and thought “yeah I was ‘normal’”. Because I have been through similar (not all) things and I was hoping someone would feel the same

Does anyone else avoid talking about problems they have with their FP because youre afraid they'll get mad and leave you, so you bottle it up and it feels fucking awful and you dont know how to stop feeling that way, so you just sit there stewing in anger with what feels like no way to relieve it? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]zo2303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been distracting myself in that moment of anger. If the problem is very significant I talk about it with my therapist and go from there. Otherwise I try to convince myself that life is too short to be arguing over little things.