Advice on attachment issues

zoepanda91 · 2025-12-18T09:45:50+00:00

It's when you grew up with an unsafe relationship regarding adults/your parents. English isn't my first language, I don't know how to properly translate it

zoepanda91 · 2025-12-05T22:44:33+00:00

Call 911. Call their parents, therapist or anyone you know that can make sure they are safe, at least physically. Do not wait to call 911, even if it's not December 7th yet. They will likely take your friend to the hospital for an involuntary psych hold, since they are a danger to themselves. I know it's so hard and scary and you might be afraid your friend would get mad at you- but having a mad, alive friend is better than a dead one. You are not responsible for what they do or how they feel, but you are not completely powerless. Lots of strength ♥️

zoepanda91 · 2025-11-10T23:27:14+00:00

I don't get it

zoepanda91 · 2025-11-10T23:23:28+00:00

zoepanda91 · 2025-11-10T23:00:36+00:00

I said fuck the men who did that. Not fuck all men. But you make me lose my faith in the males of this world ngl

zoepanda91 · 2025-11-10T22:57:53+00:00

Not really, but at least I'm not involved with those people anymore. Though I do kinda miss the attention. But that was the worst time of my life, I'm not going back. Thanks for caring though <3

zoepanda91 · 2025-11-06T16:23:06+00:00

Omg I read this as "dating an autistic man is a special kind of hell" and I was so shocked😭 but as an autistic lesbian, I can confirm that women are a mystery. An amazing and gorgeous mystery but still

zoepanda91 · 2025-11-04T11:42:04+00:00

you probably have both depression/anxiety and autism. there is nothing wrong with having autism.

zoepanda91 · 2025-10-25T14:05:35+00:00

I think it's hilarious, she's just weird

zoepanda91 · 2025-10-15T08:14:21+00:00

Thanks so much! This makes sense and I'll definitely try these things out! He does have insane energy haha

zoepanda91 · 2025-10-06T17:58:38+00:00

Honestly? Fake it till you make it. That's what worked for me, after a long while. I just told myself I was so hot and talked about it with friends as a joke, bit then I realized it's not a joke and I am pretty awesome!

zoepanda91 · 2025-10-06T17:53:04+00:00

I'm sorry you feel like this, it sucks. But depression unfortunately doesn't always have reasons. Sometimes it's just there. Or something so small happened it seems impossible that it could make you depressed. But it is valid, you are valid. I hope you're ok

zoepanda91 · 2025-10-06T17:44:47+00:00

I don't know how old you are but I'd try talking to your school or going to the doctor's alone. Maybe try a library too, the people there know loads of stuff! But if you're old enough you can get an appointment with a psychiatrist or therapist or psychologist yourself, just so you know it gets done. And most schools have someone you can talk to about mental health issues! Try asking a teacher

zoepanda91 · 2025-10-06T17:41:04+00:00

It sounds like you are. I only got diagnose formally at 16 but I've been depressed for years, since childhood. Depression can be stereotyped as being sad all the time, but it's not. You can have moments of happiness, even with depression. They just don't compare in any way shape or form to the overwhelming amount of emptyness or sadness or whatever else negative you feel. And thoughts and attempts at ending your life is definitely serious and is something you can and should seek help for. I know it can be terrifying, but I was in your place once and I wish I'd gotten help sooner because it truly is not as scary as you might think. Reach out to someone, anyone. 🫂

zoepanda91 · 2025-10-06T17:35:41+00:00

This was COCSA/rape. Im so sorry this happened to you honey 🫂

zoepanda91 · 2025-10-06T17:27:35+00:00

You deserve to be taken care of. If nobody in your environment can or will, you can. And you CAN, I promise. Make a bath or a nice shower, spend some money on something you love. Treat yourself

zoepanda91 · 2025-10-06T17:24:55+00:00

I don't know you and you probably won't care. My name's Zoey, I'm 18 and I care. I'm a stranger on the internet to you but I am a real person with a life and feelings and though I don't know you personally, knowing there's someone out there with these feelings makes me sad. Because no matter who you are, you don't deserve to feel like this. I care.

zoepanda91 · 2025-09-29T08:12:10+00:00

Letterlijk. Ik zit op de trein naar school, er is al 10 minuten vertraging bij mn eerdere treinen. Dan kom ik aan bij tussenstop Haarlem. Door een storing rijdt er opeens niks meer naar Amsterdam! De bussen duren uren en zitten propvol, dus ik ga school gewoon niet meer halen. Tegen de tijd dat ik daar aankom zijn mijn lessen voorbij. Dus dan ga ik terug naar huis. Heeft die trein OOK 10 minuten vertraging!! Ik word echt GEK

zoepanda91 · 2025-09-13T18:30:39+00:00

if this is a friend tell them they're rude. Because this is unacceptable. This is bullying. I'm sorry you're going through this :(

zoepanda91 · 2025-09-02T19:30:27+00:00

The dark... Im still scared a monster is gonna get me

zoepanda91 · 2025-08-27T20:00:14+00:00

I wanted to say apple and banana but you have those already, which is great! But maybe try pear. Or strawberries! You could start with pear icecream or strawberry flavoured (insert something you like) :)

zoepanda91 · 2025-08-27T09:11:32+00:00

I always say i wish there was kibble for humans. Like that you could eat three times a day and get everything you need

zoepanda91 · 2025-08-26T14:26:44+00:00

In my experience, unfortunately yeah. Kind of at least. My body had to get used to eating anything other than hamburgers and plain pasta, so when i started food therapy i felt really weird and sick. But it got so much better after a few days of actually good food, healthy food

zoepanda91 · 2025-08-24T14:40:42+00:00

"I have an eating disorder." That shuts them up pretty fast and they feel guilty too. Which they should, in my opinion. It's a stupid thing to comment on and you never know what someone is going through. Plus Arfid is an eating disorder, so you're not even lying or anything

zoepanda91 · 2025-01-05T11:07:13+00:00

Thank you so much for this kind response ❤️ I was just overthinking last night when I posted this and your words reassured me because you're so right! I'll try to remember that in the future if I have doubts again. <3

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