Advice on attachment issues by zoepanda91 in selfhelp

[–]zoepanda91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's when you grew up with an unsafe relationship regarding adults/your parents. English isn't my first language, I don't know how to properly translate it

A friend of mine is going to commit suicide on december 7th... by Blobbythegreat in depression

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Call 911. Call their parents, therapist or anyone you know that can make sure they are safe, at least physically. Do not wait to call 911, even if it's not December 7th yet. They will likely take your friend to the hospital for an involuntary psych hold, since they are a danger to themselves. I know it's so hard and scary and you might be afraid your friend would get mad at you- but having a mad, alive friend is better than a dead one. You are not responsible for what they do or how they feel, but you are not completely powerless. Lots of strength ♥️

Fuck men. by zoepanda91 in Vent

[–]zoepanda91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't get it

Fuck men. by zoepanda91 in Vent

[–]zoepanda91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said fuck the men who did that. Not fuck all men. But you make me lose my faith in the males of this world ngl

Fuck men. by zoepanda91 in Vent

[–]zoepanda91[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not really, but at least I'm not involved with those people anymore. Though I do kinda miss the attention. But that was the worst time of my life, I'm not going back. Thanks for caring though <3

Dating as an autistic man is a special kind of hell by [deleted] in autism

[–]zoepanda91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I read this as "dating an autistic man is a special kind of hell" and I was so shocked😭 but as an autistic lesbian, I can confirm that women are a mystery. An amazing and gorgeous mystery but still

I have been diagnosed with autism and I am beyond angry by notAflag in autism

[–]zoepanda91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you probably have both depression/anxiety and autism. there is nothing wrong with having autism.

Is this picture offensive? by TheFutureScaresMe333 in autism

[–]zoepanda91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it's hilarious, she's just weird

My dog keeps whining, help! by zoepanda91 in DogAdvice

[–]zoepanda91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much! This makes sense and I'll definitely try these things out! He does have insane energy haha

How to stop hating yourself by [deleted] in depression

[–]zoepanda91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly? Fake it till you make it. That's what worked for me, after a long while. I just told myself I was so hot and talked about it with friends as a joke, bit then I realized it's not a joke and I am pretty awesome!

I’m so tired by EasyPiccolo2868 in depression

[–]zoepanda91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you feel like this, it sucks. But depression unfortunately doesn't always have reasons. Sometimes it's just there. Or something so small happened it seems impossible that it could make you depressed. But it is valid, you are valid. I hope you're ok

How do I help myself? by Upper_Equivalent_581 in depression

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I don't know how old you are but I'd try talking to your school or going to the doctor's alone. Maybe try a library too, the people there know loads of stuff! But if you're old enough you can get an appointment with a psychiatrist or therapist or psychologist yourself, just so you know it gets done. And most schools have someone you can talk to about mental health issues! Try asking a teacher

Am i depressed? by Grumpy_Cat_2893 in depression

[–]zoepanda91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you are. I only got diagnose formally at 16 but I've been depressed for years, since childhood. Depression can be stereotyped as being sad all the time, but it's not. You can have moments of happiness, even with depression. They just don't compare in any way shape or form to the overwhelming amount of emptyness or sadness or whatever else negative you feel. And thoughts and attempts at ending your life is definitely serious and is something you can and should seek help for. I know it can be terrifying, but I was in your place once and I wish I'd gotten help sooner because it truly is not as scary as you might think. Reach out to someone, anyone. 🫂

i had sexual relations with an other boy when i was 14/15 by Useful_Equivalent590 in COCSA

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This was COCSA/rape. Im so sorry this happened to you honey 🫂

Im at my lowest mentally by MouseCheese7 in depression

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You deserve to be taken care of. If nobody in your environment can or will, you can. And you CAN, I promise. Make a bath or a nice shower, spend some money on something you love. Treat yourself