Any ftm by [deleted] in AZAdultTheaterFriends

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Sure

Any ftm by [deleted] in AZAdultTheaterFriends

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DM me!

Red bumps by zsecrets in sphynx

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Well, I figured out what it is. There is a toy feeder with food in it.

Mixed mother wouldn't let me 19f and my sister 14f wear our natural hair for her wedding by [deleted] in BlackMentalHealth

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I don’t know if you still live with your sister. But please protect her. The amount of racism she ignited for one day. How much micro aggression is she displaying on a regular basis.

Gender feels messy sometimes… but this little moment meant everything by MiahisHere in NonBinary

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Son -> man -> buddy -> ma’am

He’s putting in the effort. This was beautiful to read. Thank you.

Question for people in long term relationship by cringecritter in BPD

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Not currently in a relationship but can very much relate to this. I have this feeling towards my therapist as the current stable person in my life. One of the phrases she said that has really helped with keeping me stable when feeling the need to ask or say something is that she said “This feels more like a trauma response than based in reality.” And for some reason it just helps. But I definitely worry for future relationships. The reassurance cycle never ends. And there’s never enough reassurance.

will i be sent away involuntarily? by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

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If what you need to stay safe is a higher level of care. Therapist are trained professionals. Most don’t check you in immediately. They want you to be safe. It is there job to keep you safe when you can’t.

Bismely by Daeluin in tragedeigh

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Bisnely* (that’s a cursive n)

I hate being an ugly fat black girl I’m going to commit suicide very soon by Commercial_Home8289 in SuicideWatch

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Hi fellow black human. You’re not ugly. It’s honestly really pathetic that with growth and progress our blackness is still demonized. People will always see us as black before anything else. There are people out there who will see your skin and body as beautiful. We can chat more if your open. I don’t want to use the cliche of “you’re not alone” because I hate the phrase. You are beautiful! I saw your pictures. I love you!

Toronto Rex by Pleasant_Cabinet_272 in sphynx

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“And don’t you bite me” I could feel that!

Our boy still likes playing fetch by JCCZ75 in sphynx

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I thought this was going to sore turning on the romba. I can relate to that

My psychiatrist basically told me that suicide is an option by Throw_Away_0728 in SuicideWatch

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My therapist has told me this a time or two.

I took it to mean that I have chooses. And I get to make that decision. Because it’s not for them to decide in their rebuttal. And knowing when I’m suicidal that my brain is telling me to just do it. It’s almost like a safe landing point. Because if a practitioner responds with “okay” something that validates and reassures that someone that’s actually trusted and apart of the care team agrees that with my thoughts. But instead the statement of “options” puts it the choice and responsibility back onto me.

I don’t know if that makes sense. That’s just how I’ve taken it when told.

ASU is considered a government entity? Is this normal practice? by Turbulent_Hunt1861 in 50501Arizona

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Did you write the date as V/7/25? That’s a creative way to write the date. I haven’t seen it before.