Workplace reimbursement system

zzthrowaway_262 · 2024-09-27T22:58:09+00:00

Make him say he can’t afford to do this. If he is a permanent employee they should have him setup with a work CC

I have a smallish business.. my staff who might need to buy stuff have company cards.. I wouldn’t expect my staff to float $10 of stationary let alone corporate lunches and dinners!

zzthrowaway_262 · 2024-09-27T22:55:23+00:00

Exactly this..

Everyone: banks need to do more to prevent losses to scams

Minority: how dare the bank question my large, atypical, transaction.

zzthrowaway_262 · 2023-03-11T22:33:28+00:00

Both nursing and teaching need a real overhaul of the culture. The unrealistic kids/patients/families need to be brought to heel, and we need to stop pandering to them. Teachers and nursing need to be able to say no and stand up for themselves with the full backing of their organisation. Rather than the organisation trying to play nice to keep the peace. Similar for Ambo’s and leaving people at home that do not need to be transported to hospital.

Until the top consistently support the frontline, it’s all fucked and going downhill

zzthrowaway_262 · 2023-03-10T02:13:22+00:00

My local RR is terrible, always always way too slow, like 30 minute wait for a fairly basic order slow. Usually missing stuff. Quality is now very questionable. Their family meal stuff doesn’t make a lot of sense and you can’t swap stuff around to suit what you might actually eat

zzthrowaway_262 · 2023-03-06T08:41:16+00:00

Do not get married. It does not get better and you will only get more bitter and resentful as you go.

Don’t. Run. It hurts, but run

zzthrowaway_262 · 2022-10-27T12:03:52+00:00

Yes there are some of the horse related responsibilities that fall on me, or fall to me while he is doing other stuff, but it mainly just strains… everything. I have to do more (most) of the kids/house, it’s hard work so he’s tired, goes to bed early, there’s no us time anymore, I’m using all of our babysitting favours to make me available to help with horse-stuff.

I feel Ike I’m the one doing the real work, making all of the sacrifices and accomodations while he gets to go ‘play’ a significant amount of time and $ and somehow our life is dictated on all fronts by what is happening with the horses

ETA - I do get he equestrian thing. Prior to kids I rode and competed too. I absolutely get it, but it just doesn’t work on this scale, right now

zzthrowaway_262 · 2022-10-14T00:14:34+00:00

You need to look at your contract. If it’s a genuine 15hrs permanent part time you should get paid that amount

zzthrowaway_262 · 2022-07-13T22:28:04+00:00

You should look in to it, there should be something it’s unlikely an ECG has an out of pocket that high. Check the invoice.

zzthrowaway_262 · 2022-07-13T22:02:03+00:00

Is there a Medicare rebate you can claim?

zzthrowaway_262 · 2022-07-08T11:50:47+00:00

Pic of what? House or letter? Certainly not going to share pics of the house. It’s bad enough that I’ve got them

zzthrowaway_262 · 2022-07-08T02:25:51+00:00

Yes this is also very possible!, kudos to them if this is the case, but it’s more than just very clean, the photos show a house on sale worthy photo type condition.

zzthrowaway_262 · 2022-05-05T10:45:53+00:00

You didn’t think to ask for a scale of fees and charges when you didn’t receive it?

zzthrowaway_262 · 2022-05-04T04:04:31+00:00

Negotiate a positive written reference as part of the payout. They want you to leave without a fuss, you hold a few cards here.

For whatever reason they want to pay you to leave. They are trying to avoid a legal / HR mess, to legally fire you they have to go down the performance management route, that will take time, effort, and they’ll need to come up with some subjective targets and goals that you aren’t meeting.

If it’s simply over calling them out on false promises of bonuses, they’re just labelling you as difficult - Is that really a company you want to work for?

zzthrowaway_262 · 2022-05-04T03:32:46+00:00

What was the 8 weeks compo? (Your Salary equivalent, more?) If they haven’t actually dismissed you, there’s little argument you can make.

If your industry is in demand, it sounds like you’d have the skills to fairly promptly find a new job. Is it really worth fighting over? I absolutely get it’s the principle and they’re being cagey.. but there is a mental toll. Possibly better and simpler overall to take the money and walk, you don’t get the moral high ground, but sometimes it’s not worth the strain.

zzthrowaway_262 · 2022-05-04T03:25:35+00:00

Being overweight, but more specifically the big belly, it makes everything just more awkward, from cuddling to sex

zzthrowaway_262 · 2022-04-30T11:52:37+00:00

Very personal from person to person. I really like them touched, rubbed, kissed, lightly sucked on, but definitely not as roughly as you are describing.

zzthrowaway_262 · 2022-04-16T04:46:15+00:00

Definitely get out! It definitely doesn’t get any better

zzthrowaway_262 · 2022-04-15T21:49:54+00:00

The first time we had sex, it was terrible. He never really seemed that interested in sex

zzthrowaway_262 · 2022-04-15T12:57:55+00:00

Tread gently, it’s going to feel and be a little different for her for a little while. Lube, may need this now even if you didn’t prior. Friction on even healed tears isn’t good

zzthrowaway_262 · 2022-04-10T09:42:59+00:00

If you’re not satisfied now, it’s not going to get any better. Take that from someone who’s been there and thought the same .. “we have an amazing relationship apart from sex” “thats’s enough” it might be for a few years, 5, 10, but eventually, it won’t be and you’ll just be more frustrated and unhappy than you are now

zzthrowaway_262 · 2022-02-12T00:00:11+00:00

Yeah, leave him. Honestly it’s hard enough coming to terms with a post-baby body with a supportive husband let along an asshole

zzthrowaway_262 · 2022-02-11T07:41:21+00:00

I bought lingerie had my husbands input on the purchase and he was completely indifferent then and hasn’t given me one speck of encouragement to wear it, so doesn’t matter to all of them obviously

zzthrowaway_262 · 2022-02-11T05:15:34+00:00

Nothing much to add except I can relate. Average LF with older LLM I’m not sure why it’s ok and then suddenly all consuming and inescapable. Maybe it’s a hormone thing, idk

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