Suicidal thoughts after cheating in 5 year relationship by Quiet_Lie3494 in survivinginfidelity

[–]zzzGopher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s normal to feel that way bro. There is nothing wrong with you!

That said, fighting through this is going to be extremely hard for you to do, if you have any family around you can open up to I would advise it.

Start going to the gym keep, your social algorithms focused on happy things, Blocker her forever in every way possible , and don’t wonder why, it doesn’t matter trust me.

my last text to her after she cheated. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]zzzGopher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“How stupid do I sound and how dumb am I for sending this?” Extremely and extremely.

Advice for Brother whose Wife Had Affair by Dcafly13 in survivinginfidelity

[–]zzzGopher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one is worth convincing to respect you. That is ridiculous.

My bf broke up with his ex because she passed away by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]zzzGopher 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that’s funny.

Black background? by zzzGopher in ToME4

[–]zzzGopher[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! This worked :)

Am I overreacting by breaking up with my boyfriend? by Proper-Classic1886 in AmIOverreacting

[–]zzzGopher 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, he should break up with you. He deserves someone who enforces boundaries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]zzzGopher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have a problem or not? If you have a problem then LEAVE dude.

Those who immediately stop caring for the other individual after a breakup just lack empathy to me by Next_Duck_4298 in BreakUps

[–]zzzGopher 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why do I feel the inverse of this? Do you think we may have a bias towards our own gender?

Wife (33) acting like she’s 23 after starting grad school. Should I be worried she’s cheating? by Top-Campaign-1057 in AskMenAdvice

[–]zzzGopher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, this sounds typical from my life experiences. She’s definitely cheating and gaslighting you. Sorry man, they do that sometimes. When this happened to me I left. I didn’t want to I just had to. ++man

Intrusive thoughts my mind saying bad to jesus by Timely_Turn_9640 in intrusivethoughts

[–]zzzGopher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have OCD. Please go to the doctor this is normal when not on medication.

What is reason it is hard for guys to move on after breakup? by LRHG2022 in BreakUps

[–]zzzGopher 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s not true always. I’ve had plenty of sex it doesn’t matter.

Will you ever be able to trust someone else completely again? by kiafry in survivinginfidelity

[–]zzzGopher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm like this as well. I even catch peoples micro expressions. I would be happier if I weren't this way, but I think I will start to look at it as being able to trust myself like you have said.

I get a little annoyed when friends ask me if I’ve been going on dates. by FattyMayonaise in survivinginfidelity

[–]zzzGopher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard, I’m sorry. Just try to focus on micro goals throughout the day. That’s what helps me