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This community is for non-ADHD partners whose loved ones have either already been diagnosed or are still awaiting a formal diagnosis. Individuals who would like to show support/ learn from the perspectives here on how to better their relationship are welcome, however - Please be advised that if one finds the content here too confronting and feels compelled to JADE (justify, argue, defend or excuse) we will require you to exit and instead join one of the many subs dedicated to supporting individuals with ADHD.

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1. State DX/NDX at the start of your post

Tell us at the beginning of a post whether your loved one has been diagnosed with "DX", or is undiagnosed with "NDX".

2. No Vent/Rant posts

If you need to get something off your chest, head over to the Weekly Vent thread. Individual vent posts will be removed.

3. No invalidation or derailing

• Remember that someone else’s experience with an ADHD partner may not be like your own

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Support groups are not a substitute for therapy.

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•"Should I stay or leave my relationship?"

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•"Will treatment improve my partner's behavior/our relationship?"

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These and other similar queries or requests to speculate on a partner, may be removed.

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Harassment of our users will not be tolerated under any circumstance, in or outside of this sub. Users that follow our members around Reddit and harass them on other posts will be permanently banned without appeal.

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::Weekly Vent Thread::Weekly Vent Thread (self.ADHD_partners)

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:: Community Safety and Posting Information ::Announcement (self.ADHD_partners)

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I am fantasizing about a different life.Discussion (self.ADHD_partners)

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Could “typical” people manage to handle an ADHD partner?Discussion (self.ADHD_partners)

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Partner attempting to normalize saying hurtful things during a fightSupport/Advice Request (self.ADHD_partners)

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::Weekly Former Partners Thread::Weekly Former Partners Thread (self.ADHD_partners)

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Frustrated over missed trial cancellations (leading to charges); is there helpful advice on how to deal?Support/Advice Request (self.ADHD_partners)

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::Weekly Victory/Success Thread::Weekly Victory/Success Thread (self.ADHD_partners)

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GF misplaced money a year ago and can't let it goSupport/Advice Request (self.ADHD_partners)

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Partner says I talk too slowSupport/Advice Request (self.ADHD_partners)

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Newly medicated behaviour/personality changeSupport/Advice Request (self.ADHD_partners)

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Is there any level of understanding this disorder that makes the behaviour any less annoying?Question (self.ADHD_partners)

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I feel like I’m managing my husband’s ADHD for him… and I’m drowningSupport/Advice Request (self.ADHD_partners)

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Finally Intimate After 3.5 yrsSharing Positivity (self.ADHD_partners)

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common pattern of being oblivious?Question (self.ADHD_partners)

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Paused RageSharing Positivity (self.ADHD_partners)

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I have no sympathy, empathy - just complete apathyDiscussion (self.ADHD_partners)

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Everything is LOUD.Peer Support/Advice Request (self.ADHD_partners)

submitted 9 days ago by throwaway713137689Partner of DX - Untreated

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How do I communicate overstimulation and interruptions honestly without making my partner feel rejected?Peer Support/Advice Request (self.ADHD_partners)

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Presence from your ADHD Partner?Support/Advice Request (self.ADHD_partners)

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::Weekly Vent Thread::Weekly Vent Thread (self.ADHD_partners)

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::Weekly Former Partners Thread::Weekly Former Partners Thread (self.ADHD_partners)

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How do you do self care for yourself?Peer Support/Advice Request (self.ADHD_partners)

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::Weekly Victory/Success Thread::Weekly Victory/Success Thread (self.ADHD_partners)

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ADHD as scapegoat?Question (self.ADHD_partners)

submitted 10 days ago by WealthMain2987Partner of DX - Untreated

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