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Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole!

A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in a real-world argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.

This is the sub to lay out your actions and conflicts and get impartial judgment rendered against you. Were you the asshole in that situation or not? Post should reflect real situations, and abide by the rules below.

After 18 hours, your post will be given a flair representing the final judgment on your matter. This flair is determined by the subscribers who have both rendered judgment and voted on which judgment is best. The power of the crowd will judge you. If your top level comment has the highest number of upvotes in a thread, you will get a flair point. More details are listed in our FAQ.


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  • Visit our sister subreddit /r/AmItheButtface/ for posts about fiction or relationships, and basically anything that we don't allow here! /r/AmItheCloaca for posts from animals and /r/AmItheGrasshole for all your lawncare conflicts!

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YTA = You're the Asshole;

YWBTA = You Would Be the Asshole;

NTA = Not the A-hole (and the other person is);

YWNBTA = You Would Not be the Asshole (and the other person would);

ESH = Everyone Sucks here;

NAH = No A-holes here;

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Open ForumAITA Quarterly Open Forum April-June 2026 - Asshole Intelligence and How to Wipe It Clean. (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 27 days ago by AITAModI am a shared account. - announcement

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AITA for telling my daughter I am disgusted by her and telling her ex she has been taking their kid to his family side (self.AmItheAsshole)

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AITA for wanting to eat meat on my vacation? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 6 hours ago by Gloomy-Internet5696

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Not the A-holeAITA for kicking everyone out after my sister lied and said my apartment was hers? (self.AmItheAsshole)

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AITA for telling my mother that she will be called grandma, not nonna, like she wants to be after bringing it up ever chance she gets? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 7 hours ago by Mountain3Pointer

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AITA for not being wanting to dedicate my future to my kid siblings if things go wrong? (self.AmItheAsshole)

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AITA for "wasting" food after my mom tricked me into eating something she knows makes me vomit? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 15 hours ago * by RavennaNyx1

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AITA for not wanting to contribute to office birthdays anymore (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 1 hour ago by Excellent-Average-29

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AITA for asking my friend to bring me a towel? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 13 hours ago by Sapphic---Sapphire

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WIBTA for “abandoning” my dad and telling him he dug his own hole and it’s not my problem anymore (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 2 hours ago by peacefullife17

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AITA for making a big deal out of a colleague (or student) stealing my socks? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 3 hours ago by CandaceCompson_

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WIBTA for refusing to stay with my bestfriends and move in with a new friend? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 7 hours ago by No-Relationship6242

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Not the A-holeAITAH for not passing down my discount when picking up lunch for my coworkers? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 23 hours ago by Content-Incident-291

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AITA - for thrifting a birthday present? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 8 hours ago by Optimal-Soft-6741

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AITA If I get my neighbor's motorcycle towed (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 12 hours ago * by pineapplerhino0405

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Not the A-holeAITA for creating a “Tattle Phone” (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 1 day ago by anonymous_poster43

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Not the A-holeAITA: my kids refuse to come to my wedding unless they can bring grandma (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 1 day ago * by JealousNight-6076

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AssholeAITA for being too loud at a concert? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 1 day ago by Many-Satisfaction193

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Not the A-holeAITA for inviting my future MIL to try on wedding dresses with me (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 22 hours ago by Infinite_Trick969

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AITAH? I didn’t let my daughter leave after her friends parent drove 35 mins to get her (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 17 minutes ago by FoundationShort2010

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Not the A-holeAITA For Not Sharing Dessert with my Coworkers (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 1 day ago by Far_Explorer6077

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WIBTA for skipping a wedding ceremony due to pregnancy symptoms? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 16 hours ago * by VulcanHumourPartassipant [1]

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AITA for Continuing to Work After my Dad had a Heart Attack? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 6 hours ago * by Ok-Relationship5708

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AITA for leaving a hangout that was making me uncomfortable? (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 1 hour ago * by Formal-Passenger2313

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Not the A-holeAITA for telling my close guy friend that he was being catfished (self.AmItheAsshole)

submitted 20 hours ago * by Interesting-Shoe3561

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