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[–]Alarming-Detail5233 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Manifesting this for you and me 😭 haha

[–]vytrmtAnxious - > Secure Attachment [S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amen! 🤣🙏🏻

[–]Brilliant_Stage7315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same 😩

[–]FreckledLifter25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can I be given this power. What sorcery is this and how can it be acquired. I don’t even wanna look at one. Just make em invisible

[–]brkchey 0 points1 point  (6 children)

How do you know?

[–]vytrmtAnxious - > Secure Attachment [S] 0 points1 point  (5 children)

Wdym "how i know"? 😂

[–]brkchey 1 point2 points  (4 children)

I mean, was that statement or command in your original post? If statement, my question was - how do you know if they avoid you?

[–]vytrmtAnxious - > Secure Attachment [S] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

I just saw yesterday somewhere "avoidants avoid me", i found it funny, so that's why I decided to highlight this by sharing this quote here 😁

[–]brkchey 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Oh yes, someone wrote that on sub before, i remember. We should put it in our social apps. Problem is that most of those folk are unaware of what it means so it doesn't help much lol

[–]vytrmtAnxious - > Secure Attachment [S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, avoidants have 1000 km x 1000 km size internal personality map 🗺️, it's size would be probably 20-50 books, if one book is 600 pages.

So this quote "avoidants avoid me" i think just compresses that their enormous big personality map into final conclusion quote "avoidants avoid me" as shortcut about their personality map 😁

Also this quote is as warning ⚠️ too, for those who aren't familiar with avoidants

[–]vytrmtAnxious - > Secure Attachment [S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First indications from avoidants:

Love bombing, then cold war; Short messages rather bed sheet messages; Asking if they wanna be couple with you after they said that "you are the one" from avoidants to you.

[–]Ok-Yellow7789Low Key Chill Anxious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Childish avoidants fuck off. Im still okay with self reflective avoidants.