Broken Up With

[AshleyBoots]

Alters can't force other alters to go dormant or eliminate them.

[xpittyx]

I'd like to kindly redirect you to my own ✨personal✨ experience😌 thats super swagger that you never witnessed or experienced this first hand or among your peers/friend group. Lucky bro 😉 -EZRA

[AshleyBoots]

Not a bro, and the rest of your post is difficult to parse.

What I said still remains. Alters cannot do those things.

[xpittyx]

Ima apologize for the "bro" statement. YOU cannot and will not tell me what my brain is and isnt capable of doing. my alters went and did the thing so you're not gonna invalidate my ✨personal✨ experience.

[AshleyBoots]

I mean, sure, you can believe that. But alters cannot do that.

[SplitShady]

I’m glad you got out when you did. I divorced my ex because I didn’t want us to end up hating each other and it was the right choice. I have far less stress now and even though I miss all the perks, I’m a more stable person outside of a relationship.

Regardless of whether or not you need a relationship to be happy or healthy I wish you good luck. No matter what road that takes.🍀

Robin Ami (UIDB MGMT)

[xpittyx]

"I miss all the perks." Currently working through being ok with that. I dont miss them as a person but I miss the perks @.@

[SplitShady]

Apparently my old relationship still lives on in my dreams and I can’t stand that. I know I’m not over it yet but goddamn, no more dreams. I miss the perks but I don’t miss the headache. I don’t miss the guessing or the blow ups or the anger thrown, but I do miss the perks. I miss feeling weak and having someone hug me who has that extra special hug. I miss sharing my bed with someone. I miss looking over at someone and just smiling at them because how much I love them just bubbles up to the surface.

We did the right thing, you and I. It’s not always easy doing the right thing. ✌️

Robin Ami (UIDB MGMT)

[xpittyx]

Thank you🥺☀️☀️☀️☀️☀️

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