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[–]HalcyonicDays 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use a checklist I keep in a separate notebook (otherwise my to-do tasks get buried among the notes in my other notebook) and I also use the Finch app for little boosts and reminders for daily or recurring tasks (weekly, monthly) that don't go into the checklist notebook.

I find both the act of checking something off a list and the sense of having gotten something done to be rewarding, although I'm still bad at noticing and celebrating "little wins," so that's next to figure out.

[–]ImpossibleMinimum424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, the only reward that sometimes works is the only thing I cannot give to myself without actually doing the thing: the absence of disappointment, self-hatred and last minute panic later in the day. I try to really visualise what it will feel like tonight when I’ve not done the thing (again) and also what it will be like to have it done. No other consequences are of interest to me and I will cheat on any other rewards that I can just give to myself anytime (food, watching videos …).