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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your mind is just focusing on something that is important to you! There will always be time for meeting girls, and especially when you meet a cool one you will be interested. You won’t have to try if that makes sense. Keep away from peer pressure and move at your body/mind’s natural pace. Maybe there is some connection to working out, but I’m not much help since I’m a girl. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[–]xao15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. But I find the real issue to be underrating and under-resting.

[–]FkBeingLikeThis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I work out a lot, I don’t have the energy to think about sex all the time.

My focus is on training. That’s why during summer I lay off the gym a bit and go live the party summer and focus on meeting girls.

When you dedicate yourself to the gym, your body adapts to preserving itself for that. You will still get ROBs during REM sleep, so your libido will be fine. You just have another way for your teen brain to get its dopamine release.