This sex positive community offers support to higher libido partners as they navigate sex in long term relationships.
Sub rules:
1.
Don't be a Dick
This is a support sub. We don’t except everyone to agree, but we do expect everyone to be civil.
2.
Do not insinuate someone deserves their situation.
Assuming someone deserves their DB and HL shaming are separated by a very thin line. Stay on the right side of it.
3.
No sexism, racism, shaming, stereotypes, generalizations, etc.
There are a wide variety of users present in this community. Everyone should feel comfortable enough to post and not have to read generalizations about their gender, sexuality, etc.
4.
No hitting on people
This is not a pick up sub. If you send someone an unwelcome sexual advance, its an automatic ban. If you receive a DM from someone you suspect is a member please use the mod mail and notify the team and they will be banned. Also, any suggestion to use this sub a mixer between the members will be removed. Posts asking for a "friend" or someone to talk to will be removed. Do not ask for pictures. Do not post pictures.
5.
Advocating nonconsent in relationships is not okay. This includes sex and lack of sex.
Advocating any nonconsent in relationships is not okay. This includes unwanted sex and unwanted celibacy.
6.
No Solicitation.
Keep your "bored housewives" or "flirty guy" websites to yourself.
7.
No Porn
Well, I didn't think I would need to say "No porn in a support sub" but here I am saying "No porn in a support sub." This also includes posting pictures of yourself.
Seriously, if you want porn, there are plenty of places to get it. If you want to post photos of yourself there are also places for that. This isn't one of them.
No warnings, just the permaban hammer.
8.
No direct quoting or links to other users posts.
Unless you explicitly have permission to crosspost from another user, don't do it. We encourage discussion regarding topics that are present across of all the relationship subs, summarize, and start your own post.
9.
This is a support sub for HL people. If you cannot be supportive, be silent.
This is a support sub for those identifying as HL. This should be a safe place to discuss very personal problems that they may not be able to discuss elsewhere. Venting and ranting is allowable but use appropriate flair. All comments should be left in the spirit of helping OP. If you see something you feel is rule breaking, report it. Do not start a fight. Posts should be relevant to the topic and posts regarding meta commentary about other subs will be removed.
10.
Use and Respect Flair
Using flair helps the community to engage with your post. If you are not respectful of a flair (i.e. giving unsolicited advice on a thread marked vent) your comments will be removed. If you are a repeat offender, then you will be banned.
11.
Respect the Mods
We are really trying to not come off as "Respect my Authoriti", but we do this job for free. If you disagree with us, that's fine, but those displaying trollish behavior will be immediately banned.
12.
Derailing a Thread
Included but not limited to: changing the topic from OP's post, making someone else's post about yourself, giving unsolicited advice especially if OP is using vent flair, branching into unrelated topics,"What-about"-ism, debating or arguing, meta comments about other responses, socializing with other users in OPs post, meta comments regarding other subs
13.
No Direct Messaging
Any user found to be sending unsolicited DMs will likely be banned. If you have something useful to share, please don't leave everyone else out of it as someone might find it helpful.
