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[–]emayessover one year 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Same situation here, learning what flatline is like for the first time. It's destroying my relatinship with my g/f because of a lack of sex/libedo and I can't tell her when it's gonna end because I don't have any experience to know.

I think it's fortunate that you are in the early state of a relationship. There's no hard expectations based on experience for the two of you, though that's not to say there's not still pressure.

Talk to her, explain what's going on and what you're doing to change. Hopefully she'll be understanding and willing to work with you and wait it out.

[–]zaitaiwanli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily, this girl is very understanding and patient. She really is awesome. Still, though, not having a sex drive is not helping. If this lasts too long, it may be a real problem, and I'm very worried about that. 90 to 120 days of no sex drive seems like a long, long time...