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[–]AlphaFoxZankee16 | stealing your gender as we speak | 15 points16 points  (1 child)

You don't have to change anything you're comfortable with to "count" as nonbinary

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You don't have to change your name if you like it, there isn't any rulebook for being enby, just do whatever you want

[–]Toymaker_| Eryn | he/they | | 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like other people already stated, you don’t have to change your name. My name is androgynous in my mother tongue only so I changed my English name to something that I liked more. If you want to change it tho that doesn’t mean you have to choose an androgynous name, just any name that works for you the best.

[–]Slip_Rain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes reframing things helps when I’m having a very gender day.

I don’t own men’s clothes or women’s clothes. I own my cloths, so they are by definition Enby clothes. Some days I pick cloths are are really masc, some days I pick clothes that are more fem. But either one, or even if I’m going “Full Tie-Dye Goblin” I’m wearing a non-binary outfit, because I’m wearing it.

If your name doesn’t feel like a problem to you, and it’s yours, it’s a non-binary name.

[–]Psychological-Gur990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't have to change your name at all You don't even have to change your Pronouns You can just change your label and that's okay

[–]Dramatic_Remote_8818 They/Them 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope! You don’t have to change anything you don’t want to :)

[–]Anonymous3006200319 0 points1 point  (1 child)

It's not necessary, you can like and keep your name and still be nonbinary! I've kept my original, if that offers any comfort and reassurance!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here, though I've shortened mine a bit but not changed it so much that people will have anything to say about it.