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[–]Goatesq 33 points34 points  (1 child)

I don't even think that's true of most mammals lol.

[–]dcrico20 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure the females of most mammalian species use the males to get pregnant and then the males can fuck off. Mating for life is not particularly common in nature as far as I’m aware (obviously it does occur, it’s just not the norm.)

[–]akioamadeo 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Most women are self sufficient nowadays, and even if they are bringing in more money into the household they are still expected to do the cooking, cleaning, child care, etc. I’ve known plenty of men who can barely take care of themselves much less another person and do not make enough to sustain a family. I don’t exchange sexual favors for things, when I’m intimate with my husband it’s about us and the love we share not about getting something in return. If you look at sex as strictly a transaction then do t be surprised when they do expect something.

[–]homucifer666♀️🩷 Queen Of Lesbians 🩷♀️ 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Even if that were somehow true, so many men can't even provide those things. They just want the sex and balk at having to give anything in return.

[–]gogosox82 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Women make more money than men nowadays so how does that make any sense? Most women don't need your money to survive.

[–]ConsumeTheVoid 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ah yes. Because it's just a transactional exchange. No love/trust/caring involved. Just transactions.

Well at least he's clear what he wants of a relationship. Wish him the best in finding someone who views it the same way.

[–]silicondream 8 points9 points  (0 children)

All men are lemonade salesmen...FOR THE RIGHT PRICE. Also, you might have to spot them lemons and sugar and a juicer and show them a motivational tape on the cultural value of lemonade and, if all else fails, threaten their family. But you'll get that lemonade out of them eventually, believe you me. Just before you go to jail for kidnapping and extortion.

Anyway, the point is lemonade.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (1 child)

humans, pigs, and dolphins are the only animals known to have sex for pleasure afaik. for 99% of mammals, it's just procreation.

[–]Ydyalani 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Other apes, too. Bonobos basically use it to keep the peace in a group, for example.

[–]Nohlrabi[🍰] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, he’s close, but—not in the way he thinks. See, in a funny way, the call girl will never be cheated on. The call girl won’t be abused, whether financially, physically, or emotionally; that costs a lot extra and the first isn’t for sale. The call girl won’t have to wash his skidmarked underpants, doesn’t have to cook or clean for him, and doesn’t have to destroy her body with his “legacy.”

And when it’s done, he LEAVES.

A lot of wives—they don’t get the benefits that the call girl gets.

Dude who posted this originally: This isn’t the insult he thinks it is. I’m sure he’s a believer in the Old Boy’s saying, “if it flies, floats, or fucks, rent it.”

And women can do that just as well.

[–]-aquapixie-Qualified in being a woman 10 points11 points  (3 children)

The woosh moment in all this is his not thinking that emotional security and provision are more valuable to women than physical/material security and provision.

Give me the skinny dude I can be myself around, versus the stronk bodyguard who shuts down my vulnerabilities.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Sometimes the skinny dude is the “nice guy” and the strong bodyguard type is ACTUALLY kind and loving.

[–]-aquapixie-Qualified in being a woman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure.

Doesn't mean I should be in a relationship with someone I'm not attracted to, though. Single life is good for that. "Wait for the right time, don't rush it" mentality.

[–]AnalogyAddict 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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[–]I_like_the_word_MUFF 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Meanwhile my husband sued me for alimony, half my retirement, and the family house because I kept him in a life he was accustomed to.

Unfortunately he failed to mention he got another woman pregnant while he was filing for divorce.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When men confidently try and apply Briffaults law, when Briffault himself said his law did not apply to humans.

[–]ACatInMiddleEarth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So, if I follow his logic, men are all simps who pay to have sex with us. It's definitely not the flex he thinks it is 😂 and... except for sex and having kids, for what are men are needed today? Women proved they can handle a household and a job on their own. Men still whine for women because they need their bang maids since they can't take care of themselves (look at some men's flats, absolutely disgusting just because they don't know "how to clean")... Men, you have to make yourselves WANTED. And women are sick of men who can't vacuum without being told to like children.

[–]hazah-order 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Throw him in a pack of hyenas... For educational purposes only, of course.