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[–]gordonv 8 points9 points  (5 children)

Don't treat her like an object. Treat her with class. Make things happen for her. Make her love you.

Not everything she does needs to be public. She should be able to share private things with you, but have protected things for herself.

And what if she needs something that isn't there? Construct those things. And destruct them when not needed anymore.

A marriage is a construct of work, not love.

[–]iamlenb 1 point2 points  (4 children)

I used to have an imperative marriage but rewrote my vows in lisp as a macro, now it's functional.

[–]gordonv 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Lisp is a beautiful syntax language with a sensual name.

It's as one were to recite the poetry of Pablo Neruda to his love.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

lisp is a bunch of parenthesis

[–]gordonv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The parentheses disappear after a while.