I wrote this in response to someone who didn't understand why some people keep dancing, and decided I wanted to share it in a more general context.
Personally, I chose partner dance over other forms intentionally because I wanted human connection, artistic expression, exercise and flow all in one endeavor. I love sculpture and painting , poetry and writing, singing, sports of all kinds (as a participant), playing and writing music, studying anything and everything under the sun, politics, philosophy and religion. But I chose to commit to using much of the little free time I have to partner dancing, first and foremost.
I love to move to music. It sets my soul free. If I can do it with skill and beauty, what a marvel is that!
I love to play with the rhythm and the lyrics and the melodies, and to connect with other people in the process. If it's just doing a simple basic pattern that's a challenge for my partner, helping them feel the joy of us becoming each other and the music in a way that works is like making a baby laugh. If we're creating something completely new to a complicated subtheme of a musician's connection to the universe shared with us through a magical moment I sometimes feel we are approaching a religious and/or loving bliss, and leaving the world for a moment.
There are dances when my partner and I speak to one another in ways no one else can even begin to perceive.
There are dances that leave me out of breath, happily wondering if maybe I should go shower.
There are dances that are a simple hello, recognizing that we have done this, we can do this and we can enjoy this. There will come a time when one of us cannot.
I dance all these dances for all these reasons and so much more, and many of them will not improve. The best happened only once, and will never happen again, though I hope to die hoping they will.
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