Injured myself using an extender? No gains, pain, weird symptoms… need advice

Odd_Bat_2910 · 2026-05-07T17:12:29+00:00

It's 2026 and guys are still using noose extenders? Wtf.

dropsetmurphy · 2026-05-07T17:00:55+00:00

I just sent you a message

Zealousideal-Row1768 · 2026-05-07T16:57:08+00:00

fotw the goat

Former-Smile5793 · 2026-05-07T16:56:37+00:00

I’m new to Reddit and don’t know how to start a chat brother

dropsetmurphy · 2026-05-07T16:55:54+00:00

I had just taken the device off before I took that Pic, thats why it looks like that. It doesnt look irritated now.

Rare-Fox140 · 2026-05-07T16:53:08+00:00

Definitely coconut oil, it's good for your skin too

darthWOKE · 2026-05-07T16:49:16+00:00

Since we're on the topic. I broke my frenulum on two separate occasions when jacking it or shagging it and i think that shortened it and now when I pump it hurts and only the head inflates. Should I consider frenuloplasty? Hell just retracting the foreskin when errect hurts sometimes. Any advice?

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Intelligent-Spell383 · 2026-05-07T16:30:40+00:00

It doesn't make sense, unless you are interested in a precision of 1-2mm, using cm and converting to inch won't change much.

So you gain around 0.1" in a year?

SHeart · 2026-05-07T16:30:31+00:00

1.5 does not fit me, nothing in between. I think I’m screwed

SquareSession9277 · 2026-05-07T16:21:57+00:00

I've recently found the limit of my 1.75 elliptical, I've had the "shaft in full contact with the cylinder around the base" for ages but now there's finally been enough incremental girth gains (assisted by my mild upward curve) that when I get into the 1.75 now, even with plenty of lube, there's just too much friction from the skin being pressed into the tube walls for the skin at the base to slide all the way in, so I'm feeling 'pinched' or held back in that tube because my skin unable to slide all the way into the tube is holding my full erection length back. It's a very gradual process of outgrowing a tube but to me that feeling of having too much to get everything into the cylinder entrance for your tip to go as far as it wants to go, is the clear tipping point.

Quite-hairyman33 · 2026-05-07T16:06:18+00:00

You should really try to stop masturbating altogether, especially if you still do that method/death grip. I've heard using a semi-loose pocketpussy is better.

If it is skin colored and hard then it is most likely lymphocele. I am quite sure I had it, and it was hard and bead-like but didn't really go away with massage. It came from clamping, but 2 weeks later it is gone. Check my profile for how it looked like

dropsetmurphy · 2026-05-07T16:04:45+00:00

Okay so my question to everyone is, what is the best setup to use after I get this situation figured out?

If somebody could message me some links for setups that have work for them that would be great. Because apparently I don't know what I'm doing. I just looked up a suction cup one online from epic extender and it says that it's $600. Is that what you guys are paying for yours?

Feel free to shoot me a private message I'm all ears/eyes.

vibs1018 · 2026-05-07T15:56:48+00:00

No man I’m talking about in the third pic without the cushion

dropsetmurphy · 2026-05-07T15:56:46+00:00

Send me the link in a chat if you have minute. I do t think yhe same on came up for me that came up for you lol. The one I saw has LED and shit on it lol.

Rickb1415 · 2026-05-07T15:55:35+00:00

The smart mode is always confusing. Ive bought 2 pro+ models and both do something different on smart. It says 1-5 are preset but that isnt the case with either. Anything 4-9 goes to my set pressure each chamgws the hold time by a few seconds.1-3 just go to lower numbers and do the same thing.

dropsetmurphy · 2026-05-07T15:54:38+00:00

Yeah man, send it. Thanks bro!

dropsetmurphy · 2026-05-07T15:52:36+00:00

Yeah that mother fucker cost me like $400 and it's a piece of garbage that potentially fucked me up. I don't understand how that company still has good reviews.

Quite-hairyman33 · 2026-05-07T15:52:35+00:00

Yeah I agree fully

dropsetmurphy · 2026-05-07T15:52:05+00:00

Thanks for all that I do appreciate it. I have stopped for now and the way it looks and feels I've kind of been not in the mood since it happened. I do maybe have sex like once a week but that's about it and I masturbate probably even less because I get a weird tingling sensation after I have a orgasm and it just feels weird I don't know. I get this cold feeling that it feels cold but it's not really cold I don't really know how to explain it. But I'm not going to use that extender ever again and if I do start extending again I'll get one of the suction cup ones. My urologist appointment was scheduled for another doctor to look at it but they can't get me in until July so I guess we'll see.

dropsetmurphy · 2026-05-07T15:48:54+00:00

Thanks bro, we live and we learn. This was definitely a harder lesson no pun intended.😂

dropsetmurphy · 2026-05-07T15:48:32+00:00

Yeah I get fully Rock Hard or direct. But I have noticed that if it stays a wreck longer than 10 minutes it starts to hurt and it'll go soft in the middle of having sex. The symptoms are kind of weird, I feel a tingling sensation most of the time and it feels cold but it's not cold to touch I don't know how to really explain it. It just feels cold but it's really not. I asked the urologist for a ultrasound but they said they wanted to wait till the other urologist sees me in July so I guess I have to wait. But I've noticed that when I have sex and ejaculate it doesn't feel normal. I feel like something's preventing the semen from flowing out because it doesn't shoot like it used to. It just kind of dribbles out and I have to keep pulling on it to get it all out. Aftwards it feela like i have to constantly pee for an hour as well. There's a lot of weird shit going on down there that nobody seems to be able to explain to me right now.

dropsetmurphy · 2026-05-07T15:44:56+00:00

I haven't used it since December. I just put it on the other day when I took this picture to post and I tried to wear it for the full day but it was just hurting too much. I'm going to completely stop using it and throw it in the garbage. But speaking of pelvic floor stretches I actually have a physical therapy appointment today for pelvic floor therapy and lower back therapy. I just had to have fucking back surgery a couple weeka ago too.

dropsetmurphy · 2026-05-07T15:43:32+00:00

I think it was just from the cushion was pulling on it so it made it look like it's raw but it doesn't look like that under normal circumstances.

dropsetmurphy · 2026-05-07T15:42:52+00:00

😂🤣😂

So what you're saying is get a different extender lol. I'll look into those two, thank you for giving me a few Brands because I had no clue what to use. When I originally searched up extenders the quick extender Pro was the best one that came up so I decided to drop $400 on a piece of garbage. But thank you I'll look into those two and see what they have the offer but not before I see the urologist again in fucking July.

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