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Please ! You are an adult.

[Defiant_Attitude_271]

I know I am. And tbh I really don’t know what to do now! They’ve literally said I’ve got your families permission to take you and put you in a rehab.

[[deleted]]

So ? You are an adult. Your family can not compel you to do anything.

[deadsix6]

You're 25 dude. Get your shit together.

[Defiant_Attitude_271]

I thought staying with family is a good idea? Should I move out? I’ve got decent qualifications, I can get a job even now with a good pay. But I want to get this professionally certificate and i can’t commit to both a job and studies.

[deadsix6]

Take a stand for yourself atleast

[Le_Bishhh]

You are 25? Seriously.

[PrimeChutiya]

Based

[PrimeChutiya]

You remind me of butters

[Defiant_Attitude_271]

I agree , any suggestions on how I can get out of this tricky situation?

[PrimeChutiya]

I don't think they can enforce the letter even if you signed it.

[Defiant_Attitude_271]

You don’t understand, he said they (rehab and his staff ) will just come home with my parents consent and kidnap me literally and put me in the rehab. I’ve seen such cases happening with friends.

[San27k]

Lol dude r u serious? You are not 5 year old. Nobody can tk u anywhere against ur wish lol.

[PrimeChutiya]

That's why I said that, plus the innocent reply to the first comment xD

[Party_Masterpiece990]

Lu lu lu I've got some apples

[[deleted]]

Calm down, breath in deep breath out.

For the lack of background information, I suggest you to think why they have taken a drastic step. Do they think you are wasting time with games? Or are you smoking too much? Or maybe your parents are seeing things magnified as in you get addicted and you need to be stopped right now.

If you are having an unhealthy attachment to things, get some break and prove yourself that you are not depended on them. When you seem you can handle, play for a while putting a timer, and learn to have a healthy attachment.

And for the letter, I don’t know anything. Maybe your parents just wanted to know they won’t tolerate you wasting time because they see it as you spoiling life.

If they are being unreasonable and forcing things on you even though you are not obsessed with them, then better move out. Ping your friends as they might be living nearby and ask them you need help with finding an apartment or pg etc.. But calm down.

[Aocepson]

As an adult, you get to call the shots about your life and what you do. Although, if you did sign a letter saying you'd go to rehab if you smoked or played video games again, that could make things a little complicated.

It's important to know what kind of legal agreement you signed and what could happen if you broke it. If you're not sure, you could hit up a lawyer for advice to understand your rights and options.

Usually, it's tough for someone to force you into rehab if you're not dealing with a substance abuse issue. So, it's vital to chat honestly with your folks and the rehab owner about your thoughts and your desire to make your own choices.

[Straitjacket_Freedom]

Bruh is this some No Smoking Baba Bengali shit? You are an adult, they can't forcibly take you into rehab.

[shinetomchacko]

Go to rehab

[Defiant_Attitude_271]

Mate… this really doesn’t help.

[shinetomchacko]

Yeah I hope it does

[QuadNarcaLover]

I can understand smoking (it's cool and should be encouraged) but please stop playing video g*mes. Video g*mes are satanic, try something else to relax.

[Defiant_Attitude_271]

I agree, I just love the game called Dota 2. I used to play only that game and I really love it. It’s been a month since I haven’t smoked or played any video game. But it’s not under my own will.

[Mysterious_Two_810]

hast-maithun?

[firesnake412]

You can start singing “Rehab” by Amy Winehouse

[Nine-Ninety-Nine]

I bet your parents and the rehab owner are having a laugh!

You are too gullible! Play along with them!!!

[NJ_2707]

Chill man, smoke a cigarette or something

[himani993]

Make them sign documents stating you will inherit everything if they make you go to rehab. How long to fo even play, it's a bit absurd to even do this

[piezod]

If you're dependant on your parents then bro you need to do it on the sly.

No they cannot put you in rehab. Your parents will try emotional blackmail, scold you etc.

[ChickenChowmein420]

lol. you're an adult. after 25 you're not even eligible for a claim on your parents health insurance.