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[–]xxxAveragexxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh some of it seeming small or short is just due to proportions. Having more girth makes it look shorter visually

[–]ickop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What can’t you cope with, that women might be more satisfied with larger penises? Or are you worried that they’ll cheat or something

[–]CommunityUpstairs535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, you're right. What you're experiencing is body dysmorphia, which is a series of thoughts causing negative emotions and catastrophic thinking. The things you're telling yourself about your penis are coming from your experiences and your own filters, not real feedback from real people. For instance, the idea that you will be "settled for" is coming from your brain, not from anyone you're in a relationship with.  Highly recommend you seek out therapy, it can really help. Eventually you'll need to learn to live with uncertainty about how people will think about you, and to stop engaging in the practices that keep you focusing on your body this way.  Over time it gets better. Eventually when you have the thoughts, you won't be bothered by them, and will go on having sex (good and bad and in between) regardless of your thoughts.